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Post time 2007-10-15 11:29:20 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-10-15 06:19
One of the most stressful situations is when I am obliged to tell people what to do.
I have some people who work for me both in my house and my job.
Any time I want to tell them what to do I feel ...



For me, I seldom give orders to others for I'm just a student....  It's ok to give orders to others if you're a manager or a head in an organization .:)
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Post time 2007-10-15 11:45:26 |Display all floors

My wife and I...

My wife and I have an arrangement.

I give her the orders and she ignores them.

That arrangement seems to work for both of us.

But I gave the work boss the sack before coming to China and have never felt the need to replace her.
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Post time 2007-10-15 13:18:50 |Display all floors
Originally posted by zglobal at 2007-10-15 13:01
Haha dragon....

...but what happens when your wife gives the orders.


My wife has explained with great patience that her orders are only ever issued for my benefit and how I will suffer if I do not follow her guidance.

She is a wise woman.
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Post time 2007-10-15 15:44:27 |Display all floors

so it is not normal

To be honest I give orders to my children.I have no problem.
I also tell people what to do only as some advice.Then again I have no problem.
I am also obliged to give orders in my work but before doing it I feel much stress.
Many times I have wished to do everything on my own instead of telling others but it is impossible.

Nobody has ever understood how much I suffer  before doing so.
To tell you the truth people are touched when receive orders so politely and they are willing to act according to my suggestions.They also know that I am not going to be tolerant at all if they do no't adjust.
The only problem is with me  feeling so much stress each time.
Anyway the result is effective .
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Post time 2007-10-15 15:45:47 |Display all floors
Originally posted by sexlion at 2007-10-15 08:23


hehe...

for me, to order or accept the order is so so common, never stress and nervous...

it's so common for a manager...you need to adjust the attitude if so...

I know how to fight my bad part of myself.I will try to correct it.
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Post time 2007-10-15 15:46:34 |Display all floors
Originally posted by shelleybelly at 2007-10-15 11:23


it is very normal,no stress..:)

I envy you.
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