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Post time 2007-10-15 06:19:00 |Display all floors
One of the most stressful situations is when I am obliged to tell people what to do.
I have some people who work for me both in my house and my job.
Any time I want to tell them what to do I feel really stressed.
I try to sound really polite and considerate so they won't feel like giving them orders.

This behaviour of mine I know that has created a well balanced atmosphere both in the house and my work ,nevertheless I hate feeling so stressed anytime I want to tell them what to do.

Have you ever experienced this kind of stress?
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Post time 2007-10-15 08:23:05 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-10-15 06:19
One of the most stressful situations is when I am obliged to tell people what to do.
I have some people who work for me both in my house and my job.
Any time I want to tell them what to do I feel ...


hehe...

for me, to order or accept the order is so so common, never stress and nervous...

it's so common for a manager...you need to adjust the attitude if so...

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Post time 2007-10-15 08:26:42 |Display all floors
Well, I feel powerful when giving out of order, but I feel also happy when accepting orders, it is so normal.

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Post time 2007-10-15 10:51:50 |Display all floors
Much more chance to get others' order  than order others.
That's my actuality for I only have one year working experience

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Post time 2007-10-15 11:23:25 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-10-15 06:19
One of the most stressful situations is when I am obliged to tell people what to do.
I have some people who work for me both in my house and my job.
Any time I want to tell them what to do I feel ...


it is very normal,no stress..:)
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Post time 2007-10-15 11:24:44 |Display all floors
I give orders every day and to tell you the truth I don't thing nothing of it , although in my situation if my orders are not carried out quickly and exactly as I say it could cost someone their life , and I certainly do not stress over giving orders :) it's one of life's little necessary evils , the best way to give orders is to make the other person think it was their idea :)
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Post time 2007-10-15 11:25:06 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-10-15 06:19
One of the most stressful situations is when I am obliged to tell people what to do.
I have some people who work for me both in my house and my job.
Any time I want to tell them what to do I feel ...


Well, it depends on what orders given

As for me, it's pleasure to accept if we should do...

So don't be so stressful if the orders are reasonable.....:):)

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