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Same problem here. Something I cannot control.|
When I was in middle school, teachers picked on me because I wouldn't talk. One of them said I don't bite. In my mind, yeah you do bite woman. You just don't know.
When I was in college, I tried joining social clubs. Didn't make any friends because too shy to approach to people. Didn't go to any events because feeling not fitting in. Though, I made alot of friends in college because of my room mate and my neighbors. They had a lot of friends coming in and out and all of them talked to me. They were a bunch of sociable people. Though, I made a lot friends but most of the time, I am by myself. Too afraid to ask my friends to hang out with me.
As I age, I said to myself that I have to fix this disorder. Last year, I joined dragon boat. As always, I didn't make any friends. This year, I joined dragon boat again. I met some people because they approached to me.
Next year, I am planning to volunteer for the Olympics, if they accept me, and try to make friends.
I am setting goals for myself to conquer my fear. Maybe you should try to set some goals too. Join some social clubs.
If you are volunteering for the Beijing Olympics, we can meet up and start a shy club. :) I'll let you be the president of the club. hehe.. :)
BTW, I love your jokes on other posts.