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Post time 2007-8-9 23:21:50 |Display all floors
I thank God I lived with my wonderful fiancee before she was killed or I'd have never known the joy and hapiness that I did. It's not for everyone, but it can work too, depends how mature you are and what your mutual goals are....remember that if you fail to plan, you plan to fail!

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Post time 2007-8-10 06:30:07 |Display all floors

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Originally posted by exportedkiwi at 2007-8-9 23:21
I thank God I lived with my wonderful fiancee before she was killed or I'd have never known the joy and hapiness that I did. It's not for everyone, but it can work too, depends how mature you are a ...


I wonder if I could ask some personal questions.

What was your reason for cohabitating?

You have sex with her during your cohabitation?


Feel free to ignore my questions if think they are rude.



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Whampoa
When asked what they least admired about the West, they replied
MORAL DECAY, PROMISCUITY and pornography which...
DEGRADED women.

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Post time 2007-8-10 06:54:04 |Display all floors

What did the five fingers say to the face?

Originally posted by whampoa at 2007-8-9 16:30


I wonder if I could ask some personal questions.

What was your reason for cohabitating?

You have sex with her during your cohabitation?


Feel free to ignore my questions ...


SLAP!

Cripes!  The lady has not been buried for more that a week!
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Post time 2007-8-10 11:44:27 |Display all floors

yup,this is obviously a game just benefit the male

Originally posted by evilava at 2007-8-6 10:53
i think male will like it but female will be hurt if they finally separated


as for chinese society,this trend is not good for females.
my beloved Shrek!

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Post time 2007-8-10 13:17:52 |Display all floors

Reply #37 whampoa's post

Hi Whampoa, actually, it her who suggested we live together. I thought about it for a while and said ok, we can give it a go. At that stage, she'd been my gf for 2 years so we knew each other really well and no, no sex had been engaged in during those 2 years (dunno how I survived) but once we cohabited, the decision to have sex was hers as was timing and it eventually happened when she was ready, me too! Now she's gone, as tradervic says, and I'm so glad that I was given the opportunity to know and love this most beautiful of women and whatever might be said, I wouldn't have missed it for the world because in doing so, I wouldn't have found that even an ole laowai like me can be beautiful in someones eyes, and that my friend, is a rare, special and most valuable thing to know, and experience.
Thanks vic for the comment, I'm trying to smile!

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Post time 2007-8-12 18:48:53 |Display all floors

umm

it is happy but sometimes you miss the time you are live alone.that is life.

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Post time 2007-8-12 20:17:33 |Display all floors

Reply #41 rong_xing's post

That's where respect comes in. We are each our own person first. If you truly love someone, then space isn't an issue because it automatically comes to pass that both parties will know that the other needs to be "them" too. A partnership is about 2 being harmoniously joined, not being stifled by the other! The sooner folks learn this, the better! I loved living with my beloved lady, I loved when she was able to go annd do her "thing" and she felt comfortable doing so. I loved when I could go and do my "thing" and was comfortable doing so, but most of all, I loved the times we spent just being us, watching a DVD, her head on my lap, feeding each other snacks, a kiss every now and then and just touching, sharing the magic that is real love, the kind you are lucky to find once in a lifetime!
Hope you all have the same thing just once!

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