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Post time 2007-8-8 10:59:47 |Display all floors
for me, i will not choose cohabitation before marrige, cause i am still in the mood of  independent and free
life, but i will not deny others' choice to living together.

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Post time 2007-8-9 12:25:24 |Display all floors

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Originally posted by voice_cd at 2007-8-6 08:20
Now many young Chinese couples are living together before marriage, and it is getting more and more common. What do you think of it ? Share your opinion with us!



Marriage ties down a couple.

The reason why people choose to cohabitat (my guess because I don't and I don't believe in it) is because they have too many options.  Options not to get married or cohabitat.  But options to find new friends and better partners.  They are never contented.

So, these people cohabit to take advantage of their present relationship (for security and other personal and selfish reasons, perhaps) and feel no (legal) obligations to it.

Another reason could be or is DISTRUST that people are feeling for each other.  It is a sad trend and is true that people are distrusting more and more.


To me, marriage is to be seen as our life.  You must have faith and you must make an effort.  If you are honest with one another during courtship, you should not find much problem in marriage.  It is also important to find the right person.


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Post time 2007-8-9 12:49:51 |Display all floors
Originally posted by 0243024193 at 2007-8-6 17:24
i think we have to test-drive before we pay for a car.......


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Post time 2007-8-9 12:53:42 |Display all floors
Originally posted by whampoa at 2007-8-9 12:25



Marriage ties down a couple.

The reason why people choose to cohabitat (my guess because I don't and I don't believe in it) is because they have too many options.  Options no ...


the truth in the west is they DO NOT WANNA lose 50% of Property for just a FEW YEARS TOGEHTER

so Contractual came in
What's on your mind now........ooooooooooooooo la la....Kind Regards

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Post time 2007-8-9 13:25:53 |Display all floors

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Originally posted by caringhk at 2007-8-9 12:53


the truth in the west is they DO NOT WANNA lose 50% of Property for just a FEW YEARS TOGEHTER

so Contractual came in



You are not reading me well.

If the couple is true to each other, it didn't even matter what they have to part for the other person.

There's a problem in today's society and there's a problem with the people these days.  That's what I am saying.

The LAW isn't important.


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MORAL DECAY, PROMISCUITY and pornography which...
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Post time 2007-8-9 13:31:39 |Display all floors
Originally posted by whampoa at 2007-8-9 13:25



You are not reading me well.

If the couple is true to each other, it didn't even matter what they have to part for the other person.

There's a problem in today's society a ...



heehee----------->answer = TRUE LURVE
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Post time 2007-8-9 16:30:38 |Display all floors
Originally posted by 0243024193 at 2007-8-6 19:24
i think we have to test-drive before we pay for a car.......

Hmm, I've heard someone use that logic to ask the question about whether you are comparing your girl or boyfriend to some form of consumer goods.
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