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Post time 2007-8-7 14:09:51 |Display all floors
Originally posted by fatdragon at 2007-8-6 12:05


Marriage is an institution and who wants to live in an institution?

I do!

Tell us more..please...
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Post time 2007-8-7 14:43:30 |Display all floors
i 've see those post, for me, i do not know, but realistic thing, where is the house,
can i say at hotel, or other place, o r maybe your party, bf or gf proivde it, i mean,
one of them will rent one outside theirs' family, somehow , i think the thing looks
like shameful.
but think another, if purchase house remains, they cohabit together, if they like,
how about the future, what make them to chosse the way , meaning the basic thing to live together,their's wish, baisc thing for them living in the furture,
i do not know, factual idea i do not show,
hope my words did not midunderstand you, interesting topic, so my words appear
here, not heated comments point at me, l only want to see what yr words, you see,
personal ideas are narrow, more thoughts and talks listed here , seem to be more
fany 、knowledge、horizen etc.
anyway, experienced pepole will listed theirs true feeling and thoughts,
i like say something here, share more comments , BBs users put down yr viewpoints i wann see,
at present , this trend seems to be popular, what are they thinking about, eps.
unmarred couple, i'm wondering:
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Post time 2007-8-7 23:22:48 |Display all floors
Originally posted by tradervic at 2007-8-7 10:16


Comes down to one factor - children.  If the couple wants to have children - no.  If the couple are sterile and/or will not have children - yes.


i don't understand!!!!please go on talking!!!!

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Post time 2007-8-8 03:17:06 |Display all floors
[quote]Originally posted by sophiacj at 2007-8-7 14:43
wrong,peoples who do not get married can't be called couple...:)
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Post time 2007-8-8 03:31:21 |Display all floors
Originally posted by shelleybelly at 2007-8-8 03:17
[quote]Originally posted by sophiacj at 2007-8-7 14:43
wrong,peoples who do not get married can't be called couple...:)


Hmmmm, not sure ....

Common law is commonplace these days and I can see the same trend in China. :)

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Post time 2007-8-8 03:37:29 |Display all floors
Originally posted by changzhou007 at 2007-8-8 03:31


Hmmmm, not sure ....

Common law is commonplace these days and I can see the same trend in China. :)


I have question in my mind only if u are serious and sure...:)
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Post time 2007-8-8 03:50:01 |Display all floors

Good Traditions vs. small damages

Originally posted by fluffy at 2007-8-6 20:21


It is simple... no kids means that regardless of marriage or no marriage - there will be no damages if the couple splits up.  If the couple want to have kids, then an example needs to be made for the kids that if they want to have children of their own - there are traditions (based on good ideas) that need to be followed.  Furthermore, living apart before marriage is a bit of a traditional test to see if the couple can really make it as a married pair.

Call me old fashioned, but there is something to be said for 5,000+ years of recorded human history.
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