Author: chaoss

Men ,would you accept a divorced women and her child [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2007-6-14 15:33:25 |Display all floors
so ~~
i will stay with the mother only~~
I can feel you when I close my eyes...

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Post time 2007-6-14 15:35:40 |Display all floors
Originally posted by ncmilly at 2007-6-14 03:33 PM
so ~~
i will stay with the mother only~~

I guess to aviod divorce is a wise choice....
You are the world

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Post time 2007-6-14 15:41:37 |Display all floors
no , or we should say avoiding re-divorce.....
I can feel you when I close my eyes...

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Post time 2007-6-14 21:02:53 |Display all floors
It's up to the man..
I wanna my name

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                  the whole world...

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Post time 2007-6-14 22:02:37 |Display all floors
chaoss - I can't believe some of the advice I'm reading here!  

This probably isn't the best place to get relationship advice.  But since you asked....

It takes a special person to marry into an instant family.  It can be done.  Since you already know there will be some hard work, you're already ahead of never married newlyweds.  

You're not asking one person to marry you but two.  

The child's father may also be a part of your lives if he visits or pays child support.  It may be an intrusion into the marriage and affect when the child is with you or where you can live.   Or he may not be a consideration at all.  

Your own parents should be your last consideration ( ... I know, I'm from a different culture ... ) but they'll have to learn that you are an adult and can make your own decisions.  If they love you they'll want you to be happy.

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Post time 2007-6-15 10:03:32 |Display all floors
Originally posted by juggler at 2007-6-14 22:02
chaoss - I can't believe some of the advice I'm reading here!  

This probably isn't the best place to get relationship advice.  But since you asked....

It takes a special person to marry into ...


In fact,the factor that put sand in the wheels of proceeds of marriage was her child. ,
My parents certainly and always would want me to be happy, but sometime it was not the case at all!
My parents, deeply influenced by traditional culture, had claimed that they would not accept a children without blood lineage of clan!
Since I told about to them.they rather to kick me out of my family if I marry her.
And she, had also claimed that her would never give up her children ,
she rather to sacrifice herself for her children!

I don't want to set up a choice between them I have to make!

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Post time 2007-6-15 10:06:07 |Display all floors
"This probably isn't the best place to get relationship advice."

So,where is the best place to get relationship advice?

Could you tell me ?

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