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Oh, almost forgot to answer the original question, Will you forgive your partner if he/she cheats on you?|
For me personaly it would depend on the situation of the relationship. I think all people make mistaces in live.
If my other half would cheat on me, I would ask myself first, why. I guess since I am a Engineer I tend to bring this logic into my personal life.
If a car breaks, I dont just fix the broken part, I try to think what caused the part to break in the first place, to ensure it will not break again.
Same with personal issiues, if there is a problem, I would not just try to figure out how to fix the immediate problem, but how to prevent the problem from occuring again.
Of course, sometimes you get a car that is so badly designed that by no fault of yours it will keep breaking, if that is the case, then I would switch cars.
To put this in the releationship, Yes, if I loved someone enough, I would forgive the incident, provided I could ensure that the cause for the problem is fixable. On the other hand, if I was to belive that the problem would reaccure, then I would have to break it off.