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Post time 2007-5-15 21:30:19 |Display all floors
Oh, almost forgot to answer the original question, Will you forgive your partner if he/she cheats on you?

For me personaly it would depend on the situation of the relationship. I think all people make mistaces in live.
If my other half would cheat on me, I would ask myself first, why. I guess since I am a Engineer I tend to bring this logic into my personal life.
If a car breaks, I dont just fix the broken part, I try to think what caused the part to break in the first place, to ensure it will not break again.
Same with personal issiues, if there is a problem, I would not just try to figure out how to fix the immediate problem, but how to prevent the problem from occuring again.
Of course, sometimes you get a car that is so badly designed that by no fault of yours it will keep breaking, if that is the case, then I would switch cars.

To put this in the releationship, Yes, if I loved someone enough, I would forgive the incident, provided I could ensure that the cause for the problem is fixable. On the other hand, if I was to belive that the problem would reaccure, then I would have to break it off.
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Post time 2007-5-15 21:49:36 |Display all floors
Originally posted by yjecca at 2007-5-15 14:56
A friend told me that girls would be faithful both on body and heart but men were different,is that true?

is your friend a expert in love affair??
i have to say both men and women would not be faithful both on body and heart.coz i have heard lots of such stories about men or women who betray the other for new guy.so terrible

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Post time 2007-5-15 22:35:37 |Display all floors
i prefer take physical betray to chemical betray,coz you can change something and bring him/her back home to stay if it's just physical betray,otherwise you will never let him/her belong to you or end up with sadness.
Let it be...

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Post time 2007-5-16 05:40:11 |Display all floors
I cannot forgive or forget that kind of betrayal , it has happened to me in the past and I can tell you that it is not just women that feel betrayed and disgusted at their partners betrayal , I could never do something like that and my guess is there are many men out there that feel the same way as myself , I do not sleep with someone that I do not love , the only exception is when I pay for an escort.

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Post time 2007-5-16 06:26:43 |Display all floors
Ok, not sure if that is noble or not. You would sleep with a woman if you payed for her services, but you would not sleep with a woman casualy, is that right?
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Post time 2007-5-16 07:33:52 |Display all floors
Im a girl...I wont accept that kind of betrayal...any kind of betrayal to me during marriage or committed relationship is not acceptable....

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Post time 2007-5-16 09:02:57 |Display all floors
Originally posted by tirpitz at 16/5/2007 08:26 AM
Ok, not sure if that is noble or not. You would sleep with a woman if you payed for her services, but you would not sleep with a woman casualy, is that right?


that's correct and it is not noble it is the truth :) but you need to remember there is a difference between a prostitute and an escort , in simple terms you get what you pay for with a prostitute , you get a whole lot more from an escort .
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