Author: linda7327

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Post time 2007-5-15 18:57:55 |Display all floors
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Post time 2007-5-20 17:46:55 |Display all floors
I quite agree with kissvampire's "Getting married because of baby is stupid." But it had happened so you and your boyfriend must face it.It is unfair to you,and I don't support you keep the baby if he still refuses to marry you.It's too risky.
Follow your own course, and let people talk.

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Post time 2008-1-23 09:58:10 |Display all floors

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Linda

Can't you marry a friend or someone's cousin or make an arrangement like that?  Even give them a little money. Marry them, get the paperwork processed and then get a divorce soon after. I know Chinese women who have done this and have no trouble.

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Post time 2008-1-23 23:30:23 |Display all floors

I read your post carefully.

I think the actural abortion surgery is your most concern. If it is so, find more information about the surgery and have your BF, or close friend or family member you trust to go with you.
If you are still nervous, maybe reschedule the surgery.
Take care.
Forgive my English

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Post time 2008-1-24 12:00:52 |Display all floors

My recommendation

Get abortion and dump your bf. Sounds like he is not willing to commit that is why he does not want the baby.

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Post time 2008-6-10 18:28:26 |Display all floors
Originally posted by linda7327 at 2007-5-15 11:01
i found i am pregnant.  but my boyfriend doesn't want to marry me so earlier just because of the   baby,  he suggests abortion,     
  i know i am stupid, i have blamed myself thousands of time ...


So what happened?

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Post time 2010-9-20 20:58:33 |Display all floors
Originally posted by longzhou at 2007-5-15 12:41
Is the baby wanted by both? If the answer is no then you know what to do....coz an unwanted baby is the pre-stage of a divorce.


Ever heard of adoption?

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