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1.The flame of love爱的火焰;2.What is your dream?你的梦想是什么?3.View in the heart心中有景;.The people love you and you love爱你的和你爱的;5.10 tips about rescuing you from the pressure从压力中营救自己10招;.Ten Fables 十个寓言故事7.21个经典小故事
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              The flame of love
                             by   Hifzur Rehman
   Suppose you have everything; a good job, good health, good reputation, good relationships and lot of money to spend. But still there is something missing from your life. Guess what? The LOVE. It is not something which you should ignore. Life without love is just like body without soul.
   Love gives meaning to life as without love life is meaningless. Lucky is the person who gets love and keeps the flames of love burning for ever. It is not a matter of days or months. Love is for life and life is for love.
   Short term love encounters are not helpful at all. Be sincere with your body and soul. Indulge in serious life long loving relationship and live a healthy, happy and joyful life.
   It is easy to fell in love but difficult to keep the flames of love burning. Before indulging in serious long term love relationships be sure that the person you love is also sincere with you. A selfish person can make your life miserable. If this is the case with you then try to get rid of that person as soon as possible.
    Most people do not give importance to their love life as they give importance to their professional life. In most cases, people sacrifice their love life at the cost of their profession. This is a bad choice which ruins the whole life. A sensible balance between the two is necessary in order to enjoy life in its entirety. Do not deprive yourself of the love you need.
    People part their ways after living together for years and years. Though this looks strange but is the obvious result of ignoring the genuine complaints and grievances of the other. Sometimes a sincere apology, gentle touch, or a friendly kiss is enough to put your love life on track. However, when deep differences develop between the two then professional consultation is necessary. Do everything to bring back love to your life, if it is lost.
    In order to make the journey of life more exciting and enjoyable, you need a loving and caring person with whom you can share your values, dreams, fantasies, joys and jokes. In difficult times of anxiety, sorrow, distress or loss of near and dear ones this person should stand firm besides you and console you in every possible manner.
    Love your life and love the person who is in your life. Keep the flames of love burning to live a great, great love life.
    Discuss this article with your loved one and carefully listen what he/she says. This can give you a clue of his/her inner sentiments and the depth of love for you. Also avail this opportunity to renew your love life with a new passion and commitment.
                                         爱的火焰
                   (张馨月 译)
   假设您拥有了一份舒心的工作,健康的身体,良好的声誉和足够的财富,但是在您的生活中仍然可能感到幸福感不高。猜猜关键因素是什么?爱。爱不应是您忽略的东西。生命中没有爱就像身体没有灵魂一样。
   爱给予了生活的意义,这就如同没有爱,生活就变得无意义一样。幸运的人得到爱并能让那爱的火花永远燃烧,这不是一天或几个月的事。爱是生活,生活也是爱。
快餐式的爱情是一点营养都没有,真诚对待您的身体和心灵,认真地谈场恋爱并过一种健康的,幸福的和快乐的生活。
   我们很容易爱上别人,但是却很难让爱之火永远灼热……所以,在您决定要好好去好好谈场恋爱之前,确定您爱的人对您也一样真诚。一个自私的人能让佻的生活变得悲惨。如果这是您现在的情形,尽快摆脱那个人。
   多数人不像重视他们的职业生活一样重视自己的感情生活。 在大多数情况下,人们宁愿以牺牲自己的爱情生活为代价来换取他们的职业方面的所得, 这是毁灭整个人生的一个差劲的选择。 为了享受完整的人生,它们两者之间需要理性的平衡。不要自己剥夺掉您需要的爱。
   有些人一起共同生活数年后分道扬镳,这虽然看起来有点不可思议但正是因为忽略了彼此的抱怨和牢骚所造成的。有时一声诚恳的道歉,或是温柔的触摸,或一个友好的吻就足以让你的爱情生活走上正轨. 然而,当两人存在深刻分歧时,做专业的咨询是必要的。如果爱丢失了,就尽一切努力把爱带回到您的生命。
   为了使生活的旅程变得更加精彩和富有乐趣,您需要跟一个爱与关怀您的人一起分享您的价值观,梦想,幻想,欢乐和笑话. 在焦虑,悲伤,苦恼和失败的艰难时期,这个人坚定地守在您身旁并且尽可能用各种方式安慰您。爱您的生活并爱在您生活中的这个人。让爱之火燃烧,烧出一个强烈的,伟大的爱情生活。
   跟一个爱您的人讨论一下这篇文章并且仔细听听他/她说的话。这能给您带来一条关于他的/ 她的内在情感及对您的爱的深度的线索。也可利用这个机会,带着新的激情和承诺重新开始您的爱情生活。

            What is your dream?
                          (张馨月 译)
       Small story please think of it for ten second after u finish reading it.
        There were two brothers, they lived on the 80th floor.One day they returned home from travel and discovered that the mansion had a power cut!Although they carried the big pack of luggage, it seemed to have no other choice,so the elder brother asked the younger brother to climb the stairs up together!And then they started to back their two major pack of baggages to climb up.When they arrived at the 20th floor, the elder brother said:"the wrap is too heavy, let's do it like this,we put the baggages here and take the elevator after the electricity is coming." therefore,they put the baggage at the 20th floor and felt much more relaxed and continued to climbing up.
&nbsp; &nbsp;     They climbed upwards in various stages of animationsay , but good times did't last long, arriving the 0th floor, both of them were really tired.Thinking of only climbing half of stairs , the two people began to put blame on each other that each of them hadn't paid attention to the bulletin of the power cut of the building and got such the end.They were quarrelling about that while they were climbing, thus they climbed up to the 0th floor.Arriving at the 0th floor, they were so tired that they didn't have any strength to quarrel.The younger brother said to the elder brother," Don't quarrel,let's finsih climbing the stairs." And they went on climbing the building silently, finally they reached the 80th floor!Excitedly arriving at the door of their home ,they found that their keys are kept on the 20th floor.
&nbsp; &nbsp;     Someone says that this story actually reflectes our lives:Before 20 years old , we live under the expectations of the family and the teachers, carry on the back a lot of pressure and burdens, and we aren't enough mature and have the shortage of ability , so the walking gait is unsteady.After 20 years old ,we get away the public's pressure, unload the burden and start to pursue our own dreams with entire effort ,and we live our lives like that amusedly for 20 years .But when we are 0 years old, we discover that the youth has already died,so many regrets and repent are produced&nbsp;&nbsp;unavoidably, and begin to regret this and feel sorry for that,complain this,and envy and&nbsp;&nbsp;hate that.Spending 20 years on complainting,to the age of 0 ,we discover life hasn't already remained too much, so we tell ourselves not to complain any more and cherish the remaining day!Upon that we walk silently over our own remaining years of life.Arriving the end of the life, and it reminds us it seems that we haven't complete something yet.Originally, all our dreams stay at the youth year。
             你的梦想是什么?
                           (佚名)
    小故事:请看完思考十秒.
    有一对兄弟,他们的家住在80层楼上。有一天他们外出旅行回家,发现大楼停电了!虽然他们背着大包的行李,但看来没有什么别的选择,于是哥哥对弟弟说,我们就爬楼梯上去!于是,他们背着两大包行李开始爬楼梯。爬到20楼的时候他们开始累了,哥哥说"包包太重了,不如这样吧,我们把包包放在这里,等来电后坐电梯来拿。"于是,他们把行李放在了20楼,轻松多了,继续向上爬。
  他们有说有笑地往上爬,但是好景不长,到了0楼,两人实在累了。想到还只爬了一半,两人开始互相埋怨,指责对方不注意大楼的停电公告,才会落得如此下场。他们边吵边爬,就这样一路爬到了0楼。到了0楼,他们累得连吵架的力气也没有了。弟弟对哥哥说,"我们不要吵了,爬完它吧。"于是他们默默地继续爬楼,终于80楼到了!兴奋地来到家门口兄弟俩才发现他们的钥匙留在了20楼的包包里了.
  有人说,这个故事其实就是反映了我们的人生:20岁之前,我们活在家人、老师的期望之下,背负着很多的压力、包袱,自己也不够成熟、能力不足,因此步履难免不稳。20岁之后,离开了众人的压力,卸下了包袱,开始全力以赴地追求自己的梦想,就这样愉快地过了20年。可是到了0岁,发现青春已逝,不免产生许多的遗憾和追悔,于是开始遗憾这个、惋惜那个、抱怨这个、嫉恨那个.就这样在抱怨中度过了20年。到了0岁,发现人生已所剩不多,于是告诉自己不要在抱怨了,就珍惜剩下的日子吧!于是默默地走完了自己的余年。到了生命的尽头,才想起自己好象有什么事情没有完成.原来,我们所有的梦想都留在了20岁的青春岁月.


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View in the heart
(张馨月  译)
   There is a temple at the foot of Nanshan,and an ancient banyan is in front of it.
  One morning,a young monk gets up to clean up the courtyard and sees the fallen leaves from the ancient banyan are  everywhere,he can't help worrying and look at the tree to sigh.
For his sorrow is on the toppest,he throws down the broom and rushes to his master's room ,then he knocks on the door to plea for interview.
His master hears it and opens the door,when he sees the disciple's worried look,he thinks something takes place,so he hurries to ask him:" My disciple, what does you worry about so much in the early morning? "
The young disciple is full of doubt and tells him:"Master, you persuades us to be diligent to cultivate our moral character and grasp the  truth day and night,but, even I learn them well ,it is hard to avoid to die.Till that time,so-called me, so-called Dao, aren't they just like the defoliation in autumn or the deadwood in winter? and they will be buried by a heap of loess?"
After hearing it ,the old monk points at the ancient banyan and says to the young monk:" My disciple ,you don't need to worry about this.In fact, the defoliation in autumn and the deadwood in winter will climb back to the trees silently and become the flowers in spring and grow up into the leaves in summer  at the time of autumnal winds is blowing strongliest and the snow falls down most heavily."
?? " Why don't i see it?"
?? " It is the reason that there isn't any view in your heart, so you can't see the bloom ."
?? facing the withering defoliations and imaging they will be in bud,it needs to have an immortal of spring heart, an optimism of heart.
There are always some miseries you will meet in your whole life and strike you when  you are unprepared, but we don't need to worry day after day for  the arrival of this day, and feel sorry to yourself.
?? Treating the life with the attitude of the optimism, it can not only dissolve the agony and misfortune , but also bring a kind of pleased mood to you everyday and make your life bright and flourishing .
?? As long as the view is in the heart,aren't the paths full of fragrance of flowers everywhere?
心中有景
(佚名)
南山下有一座庙,庙前有一株古榕树。
??一日清晨,一个小和尚起来洒扫庭院,见古榕树下落叶满地,不禁忧从中来,望树兴叹。
??忧至极处,便丢下笤把奔至师父的堂前,叩门求见。
??师父闻声开门,见徒弟愁容满面,以为发生了什么事,急忙询问:"徒儿,大清早为何事如此忧愁?"
??小徒弟满腹疑惑地诉说:"师父,你日夜劝导我们要勤于修身悟道,可是,即使我学得再好,人难免有死亡的一天。到那时候,所谓的我,所谓的道,不正如着秋天的落叶、冬天的枯枝一样,被一堆黄土所埋没吗?"
??老和尚听后,指着古榕树对小和尚说:"徒儿,不必为此忧虑。其实,秋天的落叶和冬天的枯枝,在秋风刮得最急的时候,在冬雪落得最密的时候,它们都悄悄地爬回了树上,开成了春天的花,长成了夏天的叶。"
??"那我怎么没有看见呢?"
??"那是因为你心中无景,所以看不见花开。"
??面对落叶凋零而去憧憬含苞待放,这需要有一颗不朽的春心,一颗乐观的心。
??人的一生难免会遇到一些不幸在你不备的时候打击你,但是我们没有必要为了等待这一天的到来,而整日忧心忡忡,自己跟自己过不去。
??以乐观的态度对待人生,不仅可以化解烦恼与不幸,而且每天都会有一种愉快的心情让自己的生命鲜活起来。
??只要心中有景,何处不是花香满径。
The people love you and you love爱你的和你爱的
      Seek a person who loves you, forget the person whom you love,in this sentence, the person that loves you and the person whom you love are definitely not the same one." Wish to seek a person who loves you",it is daintily substantial, only accept love, don't need to pay anything.Only we haven't heard that the split life will be happy,and  the love seems incompletely to do business, you won't always win if the earnings is bigger the cost.Contrary  , for the love itself,loving other is more worth to bless than being loved by other .The psychologist named Erich Fromm says in his famous book  named the Art of Loving:"First, good love is' to give' but not 'to get',because 'to give'is happier than'to get', to give is not to sacrifice.Instead, it states the 'rich' and 'vitality'. "Sadly, like a reason for the poor, not only because he is poor,but also his capability of "giving" is taken away.
       找一个爱你的人,忘了你爱的人。在这句话里,爱你的人和你爱的人肯定不是一个人。“情愿找爱你的人”,倒是挺讲究实惠的,只接受,不付出。只是没听说过分裂生活的人会得到幸福。而且,爱情好像还不完全是做生意,盈利大于成本,就赚了。恰恰相反,爱情就本身而言,爱人比被人爱更值得祝福。心理学家弗洛姆在他的名著《爱的艺术》中说:“好的爱情首先是‘给’而不是‘得’,因为‘给’比‘得’更加快乐,‘给’并不是牺牲,而是表示了‘富裕’和‘活力’。”就好比一个穷人之所以可悲,不仅因为他穷,还因为他被剥夺了“给”的能力。
    I believe the lot, I like to let it be.Choosing the one i love, loving the one i choose,and spending my life without regrets.
        我相信缘分,我喜欢顺其自然。选我所爱,爱我所选,今生无悔.

10 tips about rescuing you from the pressure
(张馨月 译)

Have you ever had this kind of feeling that the pressure from the work and family nearly compel you to be crazy?Let you breathe heavily.So, before the pressure threatens your health, you should think of some ways to rescue yourself from it!

  1.Only worry an affair every time .Women's worriment usually exceeds the men.The researchers of the Harvard carries on the research to 166 married husband and wife for 6 week, and discovering women prefer to think about all the aspects about the problems ,so women often feel more stressed than men.She will consider her own work, weight, and also the health of each member of the family and so on

  2.Concentrate energy for several minutes everyday.For example,the current work is to type this report well, other affairs should be thrown after the brain and don't think about any one of them.By-time of the work, you can also spend 20 minutes to relax yourself, just take a walk and take no account of your work,and focus on everything of your surrounding only, such like what you see, what you hear ,what you feel and smell, etc.

  3.Speak or write out your misgiving.Record the diary, or talk with friends together, you will not feel lonely and helpless at least.The medical experts of the United States ever divided some persons who got the rheumatism arthritis or asthma into groups,the groupers in one group performed their duties in a   perfunctory manner on recording the things that they did every day.The groupers in another group were requested to keep their diaries earnestly everyday, including their fear and aches.Then the researchers found out the result:The groupers in the last group seldom felt worried and anxious because of their own diseases.

  4.Whatever how busy you are,you must take exercise.The detection from the researcher was that the pressure level of the tester would descend 25% after stepping on the treadmill for 30 minutes.If will be OK if you choose to go to the gym and walk quickly  for 30 minutes, or do some stretch exercise when you get up.

  5.Enjoy the fun of the massage.It is not only the the traditional massage of the whole body ,and also includes the massage of the bottom of the feet , manicure or hairdressing, these can let you feel relaxed.

  6.Slow down the speed of your talking.Perhaps your  table is full of the documents that you should have a look everyday , your right hand is picking up the telephone, and the left hand still needs to thumb the data.You have to cope with the mixed people and say various words.So you must remember that you should try your best to keep the optimistic attitude  and slow down your speed  as far as possible.

  7.Don't be too serious.Might as well say a small joke with friend together and laugh loudly, if the atmosphere is active,you will also be relaxed.In fact, smiling will not only can ease the strain, but also promote the function of the immunity of the human body.

  8.Don't let the negative voice around yourself and force you to be crazy.The boss may say that you can't do this or that,actually,you have many advantages,simply  the boss doesn't discover them.

  9.Relax yourself for a whole day .Read a novel, sing a song, drink a cup of tea  , or simply sit before the window and be in a daze .By this time the key is the feeling of of your heart, a kind of serenity, a kind of relaxation.

  10.Remember a good affair which takes place today at least.Whatever how hard you are today ,how unhappy you are,after you are back home , you should share one of today's good affairs with you family.


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从压力中营救自己10招
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你有没有感到快要被逼疯了,来自工作的,家庭的的压力让你喘不过气来,那么在压力威胁到你的健康之前,想想办法,营救自己吧!
  1.一次只担心一件事情。女人的焦虑往往超过男人。哈佛大学的研究人员对166名已婚夫妇进行了6个星期的研究,发现了因为女人们更爱方方面面地考虑问题,所以女人们比男人更经常感到压力。她会考虑自己的工作、体重,还有每个家庭成员的健康等等。

  2.每天集中精力几分钟。比如现在的工作就是把这份报告打好,其他的事情一概抛在脑后,不去想。在工作的间隙,你也可以花上20分钟的时间放松一下,仅仅是散步而不考虑你的工作,仅仅专注于你周围的一切,比如你看见什么,听见什么,感觉到什么,闻到什么气味等等。

  3.说出或写出来你的担忧。记日记,或与朋友一起谈一谈,至少你不会感觉孤独而且无助。美国的医学专家曾经对一些患有风湿性关节炎或气喘的人进行分组,一组人用敷衍塞责的方式记录他们每天做了的事情。另外的一组被要求每天认真地写日记,包括他们的恐惧和疼痛。结果研究人员发现:后一组的人很少因为自己的病而感到担忧和焦虑。

  4.不管你有多忙碌,一定要锻练。研究人员发现在经过30分钟的踏脚踏车的锻炼后,被测试者的压力水平下降了25%。上健身房,快走30分钟,或者在起床时进行一些伸展练习都行。

  5.享受按摩的乐趣。不只是传统的全身按摩,还包括足底按摩,修指甲或美容,这些都能让你的精神松弛下来。

  6.放慢说话的速度。也许你每天的桌上摆满了要看的文件,你的右手在接听电话,左手还要翻看资料。你要应付形形色色的人,说各种各样的话。那么你一定要记住,尽量保持乐观的态度,放慢你的速度。

  7.不要太严肃。不妨和朋友一起说个小笑话,大家哈哈一笑,气氛活跃了,自己也放松了。事实上,笑不仅能减轻紧张,还有增进人体的免疫力的功能。

  8.不要让否定的声音围绕自己,而把自己逼疯。老板也许会说你这不行那不行,实际上自己也是有着许多优点的,只是老板没发现而已。

  9.让自己彻底放松一天。读一篇小说,唱歌,啜茶,或者干脆什么也不干,坐在窗前发呆。这时候关键是你内心的体味,一种宁静,一种放松。

  10.至少记住今天发生的一件好事情。不管你今天多辛苦,多不高兴,回到家里,都应该把今天的一件好事情同家人分享。

       Ten Fables 十个寓言故事
        (中文 佚名  张馨月  英译)
(一)
  一只乌鸦坐在树上,整天无所事事。一只小兔子看见乌鸦,就问:“我能象你一样整天坐在那里,什么事也不干吗?”乌鸦答道:“当然啦,为什么不呢?”于是,兔子便坐在树下,开始休息。突然,一只狐狸出现了。狐狸跳向兔子……并把它给吃了。
  这个故事的寓意是……要想坐在那里什么也不干,你必须坐(做)得非常非常高。 ( 一)

  A crow was sitting around on the tree all day.A leveret saw the crow and asked:" Can i sit there and do nothing the whole day?"the crow answered:"Of course,why not?" Hence, the rabbit then sitted under the tree, and started taking a rest.Suddenly, a fox appeared.The fox sprang at the rabbit …… and ate it.

  The implied meaning of this story is  …… if you want to sit there and don't need to do anying,you must sit( do) very high.
  (二)
  一只火鸡和一头公牛在聊天。“我非常想到那棵树顶上去,”火鸡叹口气道,“但是我没有那份力气。”“这样啊,那你为什么不吃点我的粪便呢?”公牛答道,“那里面充满了营养。”火鸡吃了一团牛粪,发现它真的使自己有力气到达树的第一个分叉处。第二天,在吃了更多的牛粪以后,火鸡到达了树的第二个分叉处。最终,两星期后,火鸡非常骄傲地站在了树的顶端。但不幸的是,没多久,它就被一个农夫盯上了,并且农夫非常利索地就将火鸡射了下来。
  这个故事的寓意是……牛粪(狗屎运)也许能使你抵达顶峰,但它不能使你永远呆在那儿。
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  A turkey and a ox were chatting." I want to get on treetop very much," the turkey sighed ," but I have no that energy."" Thus, why not eat some of  my excrement?" The bull answered," It is full of nourishment." The turkey ate one  regiment of cow muck,and discovered that it really made it have the enough strength to arrive the first crotch of the tree.The second day, after eating more cow muck , it arrived the second crotch of the tree.Two weeks later, the turkey finally stood  at the top of the tree proudly.Unfortunately, no long after , it was targeted  by a farmer , and the farmer  shot down the turkey nimbly .
The implied meaning of this story is  ……  cow muck( Bad luck) may make you arrive the peak , but it can't make you stay there forever.
  (三)
  一只小鸟正在飞往南方过冬的途中。天气太冷了,小鸟冻僵了,从天上掉下来,跌在一大片农田里。它躺在田里的时候,一只母牛走了过来,而且拉了一泡屎在它身上。冻僵的小鸟躺在牛屎堆里,发掘牛粪真是太温暖了。牛粪让它慢慢缓过劲儿来了!它躺在那儿,又暖和又开心,不久就开始高兴地唱起歌来了。一只路过的猫听到了小鸟的歌声,走过来查个究竟。顺着声音,猫发现了躲在牛粪中的小鸟,非常敏捷地将它刨了出来,并将它给吃了!
  这个故事的寓意是……
  1)不是每个在你身上拉屎的都是你的敌人。
  2)不是每个把你从屎堆中拉出来的都是你的朋友。
  3)而且,当你陷入深深的屎堆当中(身陷困境)的时候,闭上你的鸟嘴!
( Three)

  A small bird was way the way to fly to south to overwinter.The weather was much too cold, the small bird frozen stiff, and dropped down from  the sky and fell in a vast farmland.When it lay in the farmland, a cow walked over, and ---- a heap of excrement on it.The small frozen stiff bird lay in the cow's excrement and discovered it was really too warm.The cow muck let it slowly ease !It lay where and felt warm and happy, soon it began to sing songs happily.A cat passing by heard the singing of the small bird, so it came over to check what happened .Following the sound, the cat discovered the small bird hiding in the cow muck, then it digged it out with alacrity and ate it!

  The implied meaning  of this story is  ……

  1) Not all the persons who ---- on you are your enemies.

  2) Not all the people who pull you up from the heaps of excrement are your friends.

  3) Furthermore , when you sink into the excrement deeply ( the predicament), shut up your beak!
  (四)
  表演大师有一位表演大师上场前,他的弟子告诉他鞋带松了。大师点头致谢,蹲下来仔细系。
  等到弟子转身后,又蹲下来将鞋带解松。有个旁观者看到了这一切,不解地问:“大师,您为什么又要将鞋带解松呢?”大师回答道:“因为我饰演的是一位劳累的旅者,长途跋涉让他的鞋事松开,可以通过这个细节表现他的劳累憔悴。”“那你为什么不直接告诉你的弟子呢?”“他能细心地发现我的鞋带松了,并且热心地告诉我,我一定要保护他这种热情的积极性,及时地给他鼓励,至于为什么要将鞋带解开,将来会有更多的机会教他表演,可以下一次再说啊。”人一个时间只能做一件事,懂抓重点,才是真正的人才。
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  Before A master of performance performed , his pupil told him that his shoelace was loosen.The master nodded and thanked him,then  squatted down to tie it carefully .

  After waiting his pupil turn round,he again  squatted down and loosed his shoelace .An looker-on saw all these things and asked the master confusedly:" Master, why not loose shoelace again?" The master  answered:" Because the person which I play is tired traveller ,the long and difficult journey make  his shoelace loose , his weariness and emaciation can be shown from this detail ."" Why not tell your pupil directly?"" He can discover that my shoelace loose carefully, and tell me enthusiastically, I must protect this kind of enthusiasm from his and encourage him in time, as for why to untie the shoelace, there will be more opportunities to teach him how to perform in the future, i can say to him next time." A person can only do one thing at a time , he is a real talented person if he can understand the focus.


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(五)
  鹦鹉一个人去买鹦鹉,看到一只鹦鹉前标:此鹦鹉会两门语言,售价二百元。另一只鹦鹉前则标道:此鹦鹉会四门语言,售价四百元。该买哪只呢?两只都毛色光鲜,非常灵活可爱。这人转啊转,拿不定主意。结果突然发现一只老掉了牙的鹦鹉,毛色暗淡散乱,标价八百元。这人赶紧将老板叫来:这只鹦鹉是不是会说八门语言?店主说:不。这人奇怪了:那为什么又老又丑,又没有能力,会值这个数呢?店主回答:因为另外两只鹦鹉叫这只鹦鹉老板。
这故事告诉我们,真正的领导人,不一定自己能力有多强,只要懂信任,懂放权,懂珍惜,就能团结比自己更强的力量,从而提升自己的身价。相反许多能非常强的人却因为过于完美主义,事必躬亲,什么人都不如自己,最后只能做最好的攻关人员,销售代表,成不了优秀的领导人。
  A person went to buy parrot,he saw a mark which wrote about a parrot :This parrot know two languages ,its price is 200 dollars.Another mark of another parrot:This one know Four languages,its price is  400 dollars.Both of their feathers were bright and colorful,they are also vivid and lovely.The person went around and couldn't make a decision.Finally,he suddenly discovered an old parrot which dropped his teeth and its feathers looks dim and messy,its price is 800 dollars.The man called the boss to come hurriedly and asked:Can this parrot say eight languages?The storekeeper said:No.The person felt strange and asked again:Then, why this  old, ugly  and incapable parrot can be worth  this piece?The storekeeper answered:Because the other two parrots calls him boss.
  This story tells us that a true leader may be uncertain how strong his ability is , as long as know the trust,know to transfer power to a lower level and cherish,then he can solidify the power which is stronger than hiself power, thus he promote his own prestige.Contrary, for being over perfect ,many person who have very strong abilities attend to do everything personally, and think whoever is  not as good as themselves,Eventually,they can only be the best sales representative,but can't be the best leaders.

 

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(六) 金人
曾经有个小国的人到中国来,进贡了三个一模一样的金人,金壁辉煌,把皇帝高兴坏了。可是这小国的人不厚道,同时出一道题目:这三个金人哪个最有价值?皇帝想了许多的办法,请来珠宝匠检查,称重量,看做工,都是一模一样的。
  怎么办?使者还等着回去汇报呢。泱泱大国,不会连这个小事都不懂吧?最后,有一位退位的老臣。皇帝将使者请到大殿,老臣胸有成足地拿着三根稻草,插入第一个金人的耳朵里,这稻草从另一边耳朵出来了。第二个金人的稻草从嘴巴里直接掉出来,而第三个金人,稻草进去后掉进了肚子,什么响动也没有。老臣说:第三个金人最有价值!使者默默无语,答案正确。
  这个故事告诉我们,最有价值的人,不一定是最能说的人。老天给我们两只耳朵一个嘴巴,本来就是让我们多听少说的。善于倾听,才是成熟的人最基本的素质。
The gold person
A man from a small country ever came to China  and paid tribute three gold persons whom looked exactly alike,all were brilliancy,that made the emperor very happily.But the person from the small country was not honest and kind, at the same time he drew out a problem:Which has the greatest value among these three gold persons ?The emperor thought many ways, sent the jeweller to check, weighed and saw the work, but all of them were exactly alike.
  How to do?The emissary still waited for returning to report.Such a magnificent  country, can't check out the reason of this small thing?Finally, there was an old minister  who already resigned.The emperor invited the emissary to the audience hall, the old minister  who had a contrivance ready took out three rice straws,and inserted it into one of the ears of the first gold person , this rice straw came out from the other ear .The rice straw of the second gold person dropped down from the mouth directly,but to the third gold person, after the rice straw dropped into the belly, nothing happened.The old minister said:The third gold person has the greatest value!The emissary was silent,that meant the answer was correct.
  This story tells us that the most worthy person may not be the most talkative one.The bejesus gives us two ears and a mouth,they  originally make us hear more and say little.Being good at listening is just a mature person's  most basic character .
(七)辞职
  A对B说:“我要离开这个公司。我恨这个公司!”B建议道:“我举双手赞成你报复!!破公司一定要给它点颜色看看。不过你现在离开,还不是最好的时机。”A问:为什么?B说:“如果你现在走,公司的损失并不大。你应该趁着在公司的机会,拼命去为自己拉一些客户,成为公司独挡一面的人物,然后带着这些客户突然离开公司,公司才会受到重大损失,非常被动。”A觉得B说的非常在理。于是努力工作,事遂所愿,半年多的努力工作后,他有了许多的忠实客户。再见面时B问A:现在是时机了,要跳赶快行动哦!A淡然笑道:老总跟我长谈过,准备升我做总经理助理,我暂时没有离开的打算了。
  其实这也正是B的初衷。一个人的工作,永远只是为自己的简历。只有付出大于得到,让老板真正看到你的能力大于目前位置,才会给你更多的机会替他创造更多利润。
 Resignation
   A says to B:" I want to leave this company.I hate this company!" B suggests him:" I raise the hands to approve you make the reprisals!!Damned company must be given some color to sees.However ,if you leave now, it is not best opportune moment." A asks:Why? B says:" If you leave now, the loss of the company is not very big.You should be under the cover of working in the company,and  try to form ties with some some customers for yourself and be able to undertake the tack alone in the company , then you can  take these customers to leave the company suddenly, only this the company would suffer heavy losses and be very passive."  A feels what B says is reasonable.Hence he works hard and things go to his wishes, after half a year of   diligent work,he has many faithful customers.When they meet again, B asks A:Now It is the time,if you want to get a new employment ,you should hurry up! A smiles coldly and says:The chief has talked with me and prepares to promote me to general manager's assistant, I don't plan to leave temporarily.
  In fact this is exactly B's original intention.A person's work, is just his own resume forever.Only paying more than getting and making the boss see that your ability is higher than your current location,then you can be given more opportunities to create more profitses for him.
  ( 八)去掉自己身上的气味!
  一只鸽子老是不断地搬家。
  它觉得,每次新窝住了没多久,就有一种浓烈的怪味,让它喘不上气来,不得已只好一直搬家。
  它觉得很困扰,就把烦恼跟一只经验丰富的老鸽子诉苦。
  老鸽子说:“你搬了这么多次家根本没有用啊,因为那种让你困扰的怪味并不是从窝里面发出来的,而是你自己身上的味道啊。”
  寓言启示录:与团队格格不入,问题来自于自己!
  有些人会不断埋怨别人的过错,指责别人的缺点,他们觉得周围的环境和人处处跟自己作对;或者是认为自己“曲高和寡”,一般人无法理解自己丰富而深刻的思想。实际上,他们没有意识到真正的问题不是来自于周围,而是来自于他们自己。
  像这样的人,必须试着认清自己,试着认真而深刻地反省自己。
  而一个组织也没必要为了失掉这样一只“鸽子”而遗憾。
  愈来愈多的研究显示,领导能力不是天生的,人们完全可以透过后天的努力获得这种能力。因此,领导者要想成功地改变员工,首先就必须改变自己的领导特质。
  对领导者而言,出色的管理能力仍然是必需的。领导者拥有这种管理能力,不是为了控制和命令员工,而是为了支持、帮助员工的发展与成长。
  在这变幻莫测的全球竞争时代,公司高层与其苦苦追寻“先进”的管理方法与手段,不如将眼光放远,锁定员工的才智与热情,这是公司取之不尽的宝藏,公司必须找到适当的途径将他们释放出来。实现这个目标的唯一途径,就是让管理从控制员工,转向为相信员工潜力、鼓舞员工热情。

Throw away the smell of oneself's body!
  A pigeon moves its home constantly.
  Every time,it had no sooner lived in the net than felt a kind of strong strange flavor which made it breathless,and had to keep on moving.
  Feeling very perplexed ,it complained about the trouble to an old experienced pigeon .
  The old pigeon said:"It wasn't useful to move so many times at all,because the strange smell which troubled you doesn't send out from the inside of the nest ,but from your body."
  The revelation of this Parable:If a person is incompatible with the team , the problem comes from himself!
Some people will go on complaining the others'faults and reflecting others' shortcomings,they feel the surroundings and the persons around them always oppose them;or they will think themselves as " the song is too high to be popular ", the ordinary people can't comprehend their abundant and deep thought.Actually, they aren't aware of the real problem is not from the surroundings, but  from themselves.
  Being like such a kind of person,he must try to recognize himself, try to be earnest and make a self-examination deeply.
  To an organization,it needn't to regret to lose such a "pigeon".
  More and more research show the leadership is not inborn, people can completely get this kind of ability through the postnatal effort.Therefore,if the leader wants to change the employees successfully, he must change his leading characteristics first.
  To a leader, the outstanding ability of management  is still essential.The leader owns the ability of this kind of management ,it is not for controlling and ordering the employees, but for the sake of  supporting and helping the employees' development and  growth.
  In this changeable era which has so much competition around the world, the key figures of a company would rather have foresight and target the employees' wisdom and abilities and enthusiasms than seeking the advanced method and meanses of management,this is the company's inexhaustible treasure , the company must find out the appropriate path to release them.The unique path to realize this target is changing the job of management from  controlling the employees to believing  employees' potential and encouraging their enthusiasm.


    (九)成长的寓言:做一棵永远成长的苹果树
    一棵苹果树,终于结果了。
    第一年,它结了10个苹果,9个被拿走,自己得到1个。对此,苹果树愤愤不平,于是自断经脉,拒绝成长。第二年,它结了5个苹果,4个被拿走,自己得到1个。“哈哈,去年我得到了10%,今年得到20%!翻了一番。”这棵苹果树心理平衡了。
    但是,它还可以这样:继续成长。譬如,第二年,它结了100个果子,被拿走90个,自己得到10个。
    很可能,它被拿走99个,自己得到1个。但没关系,它还可以继续成长,第三年结1000个果子……
    其实,得到多少果子不是最重要的。最重要的是,苹果树在成长!等苹果树长成参天大树的时候,那些曾阻碍它成长的力量都会微弱到可以忽略。真的,不要太在乎果子,成长是最重要的。
    Be an apple tree which grows up forever  
   An apple tree finally fruited.  
   The first year, it fruited 10 apples,9 ones were taken away and it got only one.To this, the apple tree was indignant,and it decided to give self-inflicted injury to itself and refused growth.The second year, it fruited 5 apples,4 ones were taken away, and only one could be kept."Haw-haw, I got 10% last year, and get 20% this year!Doubled!" the psychology of this apple  tree  balanced.  
   But, it can also grow like this:Continue to grow up.For example, the second year, it fruits 100 apples and 90 ones are taken away ,it can keep 10 ones. But it doesn't matter, it can also continue to grow up and fruits 1000 apples in the third year ……
   In fact, it is not the  most important to get how many fruits .The most important thing is , the apple tree is growing up!With waiting the apple tree grows into a towering tree, those powers which ever blockes it grow up will become faint and can be neglected.Really,don't care the fruits ,the growth is the  most important.


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(十)雨后,一只蜘蛛艰难地向墙上已经支离破碎的网爬去,由于墙壁潮湿,它爬到一定的高度,就会掉下来,它一次次地向上爬,一次次地又掉下来…… 第一个人看到了,他叹了一口气,自言自语:“我的一生不正如这只蜘蛛吗?忙忙碌碌而无所得。”于是,他日渐消沉。 第二个人看到了,他说:这只蜘蛛真愚蠢,为什么不从旁边干燥的地方绕一下爬上去?我以后可不能像它那样愚蠢。于是,他变得聪明起来。 第三个人看到了,他立刻被蜘蛛屡败屡战的精神感动了。于是,他变得坚强起来。

秘诀:有成功心态者处处都能发觉成功的力量。
Afer a rain, a spider walled hard toward its fragmented network, since the wall was damp ,every time it climbed up to a certain height, it would fall down,it had to repeat the actions again and again…..a person who saw this first sighed and said to himself : "Isn’t my life like this spider? Busy without earning. "Therefore, he increasingly demoralized. The second person who saw the scene said : This spider is really stupid, why not go around and climb up from the dry side ? I will not be so foolish as it is. Thus, he became cleverer.The third one who saw it was immediately moved by the spirit of keep fighting from the spider. Therefore, he turned to be stronger.      The secret of success : The person who has an attitude to be successful can catch the force of success

  21 Small Stories (21个小故事)(佚名  中文   张馨月 英译)

     1. Tolerance   
A piggy,a sheep and a milker were kept in the same corral,Once the Shepherd caught the piggy,it howled loudly and disputed fiercely.The sheep and the milker hated to hear it howl and said to it : He catches us frequently, but we do not make any noise. After listening to this,the piggy replied : "It is completely different from catching you and me, he catches you,and only wants your fur and milk, but to me,he wants my life!   Different persons on different position find it is difficult to understand other's feelings. So we should have the feeling of careness and comprehension to the others'chill, frustration and sadness,don't take pleasure in other's misfortune .We should have tolerance!
宽容
  一只小猪、一只绵羊和一头乳牛,被关在同一个畜栏里。有一次,牧人捉住小猪,牠大声号叫,猛烈地抗拒。绵羊和乳牛讨厌牠的号叫,便说:「他常常捉我们,我们并不大呼小叫。小猪听了回答道:「捉你们和捉我完全是两回事,他捉你们,只是要你们的毛和乳汁,但是捉住我,却是要我的命呢!
  立场不同、所处环境不同的人,很难了解对方的感受;因此对别人的失意、挫折、伤痛,不宜幸灾乐祸,而应要有关怀、了解的心情。要有宽容的心!
2、 Rely on ourselves
          Little snail asked his mother : Why do we have to bear this heavy and hard shell as we were born?   
          Mom : Because there are no bones in our bodies to support it, we only can crawl but no fast. Therefore, we need this shell to protect ourselves!  
          Little snail :There are no bones in caterpillar's sister's body,and she can't crawl quickly yet. why she does not need to carry too this kind of heavy and hard shell?   
          Mom : Because Caterpillar sister could turn into a butterfly, the sky will protect her .
         Little snail:But it is the same to earthworm brother and he can't turn into a butterfly,why he doesn't need to carry the heavy and hard shell?   
          Mom : Because earthworm brother is able to drill soil, the earth will protect him .   
          Little snail started to cry : we are so poor, neither the sky nor the earth protects us.
          The snail's mother consoled him : "So we have shell!"   We do not rely on the sky, nor the earth, we rely on ourselves.
         

靠自己
  小蜗牛问妈妈:为什么我们从生下来,就要背负这个又硬又重的壳呢?
  妈妈:因为我们的身体没有骨骼的支撑,只能爬,又爬不快。所以要这个壳的保护!
  小蜗牛:毛虫姊姊没有骨头,也爬不快,为什么她却不用背这个又硬又重的壳呢?
  妈妈:因为毛虫姊姊能变成蝴蝶,天空会保护她啊。
  小蜗牛:可是蚯蚓弟弟也没骨头爬不快,也不会变成蝴蝶他什么不背这个又硬又重的壳呢?
  妈妈:因为蚯蚓弟弟会钻土, 大地会保护他啊。
  小蜗牛哭了起来:我们好可怜,天空不保护,大地也不保护。
  蜗牛妈妈安慰他:「所以我们有壳啊!」
  我们不靠天,也不靠地,我们靠自己。


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3、Sharks and fish  
      It had ever been done  to put a most ferocious sharks and a group of tropical fish in the same pond, and then  separated them with strengthen glass.Initially, the sharks continued to bumping the glass which seems no exist there,but what it did was futile,because it couldn't cross to the opposite side, and the persons in the laboratory put some crucian into the pool everyday,so the shark didn't lack of prey,but it still thought to go to the opposite side to try the beautiful taste, every day it was constant to bump the piece of glass, although it tried every corner and every time it exhausted all its efforts, it only could get the numerous injuries, several times it broke itself and was bleeding all over the body,this kind of situation persisted for a number of days,  whenever crack appeared on the glass ,the men will change it with another piece of thick glass.
       Later, the Sharks didn't  bumped the piece of glass any more and didn't care about the bright-colored tropical fish ,to it ,they were just like the wall murals , which could move on the wall .The shark began to wait the crucian which appeared on time and used its quick instinct to hunt,it seemed that its extremely arrogant vicious hegemony which showed in the sea returned ,but it was just feint.
       When the experimen was done in the final stage,the men removed the glass, but the sharks did not respond, every day it only swam in the settled regional ,it not only ignored the tropical fish,but also gave up to hunt them immediately and wouldn't like to swim near that place even though the crucian escaped to the other side.The men ridiculed  it as a most cowardly fish in the sea .
        But to the people who are disappointed in a love affair know the reason,because it is afraid of pain.  
            
鲨鱼与鱼
  曾有人做过实验,将一只最凶猛的鲨鱼和一群热带鱼放在同一个池子,然后用强化玻璃隔开,最初,鲨鱼每天不断冲撞那块看不到的玻璃,耐何这只是徒劳,它始终不能过到对面去,而实验人员每天都有放一些鲫鱼在池子里,所以鲨鱼也没缺少猎物,只是它仍想到对面去,想尝试那美丽的滋味,每天仍是不断的冲撞那块玻璃,它试了每个角落,每次都是用尽全力,但每次也总是弄的伤痕累累,有好几次都浑身破裂出血,持续了好一些日子,每当玻璃一出现裂痕,实验人员马上加上一块更厚的玻璃。
  后来,鲨鱼不再冲撞那块玻璃了,对那些斑斓的热带鱼也不再在意,好像他们只是墙上会动的壁画,它开始等着每天固定会出现的鲫鱼,然后用他敏捷的本能进行狩猎,好像回到海中不可一世的凶狠霸气,但这一切只不过是假像罢了,实验到了最后的阶段,实验人员将玻璃取走,但鲨鱼却没有反应,每天仍是在固定的区域游着它不但对那些热带鱼视若无睹,甚至于当那些鲫鱼逃到那边去,他就立刻放弃追逐,说什么也不愿再过去,实验结束了,实验人员讥笑它是海里最懦弱的鱼。
  可是失恋过的人都知道为什么,它怕痛。
4、 Miracle   
In France, a remote town rumor that a special prayers springs often appeared miracle that can cure many diseases. One day, one leaning on a cane, the less one of the legs of veterans, a lame lame through the village roads, and beside the town's sympathy with the kiss back, said : "the poor man, I wonder if he would like to pray to God have a leg 吗??" This was demobilized soldiers heard, he turned to them : "I am not God to pray for a new leg but to pray for him to help me and ask me to no legs, knows how to live. "   Just imagine : Learning for the Thanksgiving loss, the loss of the facts, regardless of the gain and loss of life, always beautiful and full of life to let their own brilliance, no tears for the past, the efforts and deal with their lives.   
神迹
  法国一个偏僻的小镇,据传有一个特别灵验的水泉,常会出现神迹,可以医治各种疾病。有一天,一个拄着拐杖,少了一条腿的退伍军人,一跛一跛的走过镇上的马路,旁边的镇民带着同情的回吻说:「可怜的家伙,难道他要向上帝祈求再有一条腿吗??」这一句话被退伍的军人听到了,他转过身对他们说:「我不是要向上帝祈求有一条新的腿,而是要祈求祂帮助我,叫我没有一条腿后,也知道如何过日子。」
  试想:学习为所失去的感恩,也接纳失去的事实,不管人生的得与失,总是要让自已的生命充满了亮丽与光彩,不再为过去掉泪,努力的活出自己的生命。
5、 Poles
  Fishing in the river is an old, a child has to see his fishing skills skilled elderly, there is no time to catch on the first baskets on the fish, a lovely old kids see, the whole baskets of fish gave him, the children, shaking his head and the elderly surprised and asked him : "Why did you not? "The child replied :" I want your hands poles. "Elderly : "What do you want to poles? fish baskets, "the children said :" This is not finished on time, if I had poles, I can own bait, a lifetime not eat. "   I think you will say : Well, the smart kids. Wrong, if he provided poles, he also did not eat a fish. Because he did not know angling skills, it is useless to have a fishing rod, fishing is important is not the "poles" and "fishing technology."   Too many people consider themselves to have a life along the poles, it was nothing to fear from the road of ups and downs, this will inevitably fall on the muddy ground. If children see on the elderly, as long as they are poles will not eat fish, like their bosses, staff, as long as they sit in an office, it rolled into the financing.
钓竿
  有个老人在河边钓鱼,一个小孩走过去看他钓鱼,老人技巧纯熟,所以没多久就钓上了满篓的鱼,老人见小孩很可爱,要把整篓的鱼送给他,小孩摇摇头,老人惊异的问道:「你为何不要?」小孩回答:「我想要你手中的钓竿。」老人问:「你要钓竿做什么?」小孩说:「这篓鱼没多久就吃完了,要是我有钓竿,我就可以自己钓,一辈子也吃不完。」
  我想你一定会说:好聪明的小孩。错了,他如果只要钓竿,那他一条鱼也吃不到。因为,他不懂钓鱼的技巧,光有鱼竿是没用的,因为钓鱼重要的不在“钓竿”,而在“钓技”。
  有太多人认为自己拥有了人生道上的钓竿,再也无惧于路上的风雨,如此,难免会跌倒于泥泞地上。就如小孩看老人,以为只要有钓竿就有吃不完的鱼,像职员看老板,以为只要坐在办公室,就有滚进的财源。
  
6.A:" The neighbor who moved lately is very damned, at midnight of last night,they ran to   press the door bell of my house fiercely." B:" Really damned!Did you report to the police right away?" A:" No.I took them as bedlamites, and continue to blowing my small trumpet."
- A reason for it, if he can see his own fault first, the answer would be different.
甲:“新搬来的邻居好可恶,昨天晚上三更半夜跑来猛按我家的门铃。”乙:“的确可恶!你有没有马上报警?”甲:“没有。我当他们是疯子,继续吹我的小喇叭。”
——事出必有因,如果能先看到自己的不是,答案就会不一样。
  7.Zhang San is driving on the path of the mountain,when he is enjoying the beautiful scenery carefreely, suddenly a driver of a truck which is driving directly against his car shakes down the window and yells:" Pig!" ZHANG SAN gets more and more angry when he thinks about it,then he also shakes down the  window to lambaste:" You are just pig!" as soon as he finishes scolding, he meets a flock of pigs which are crossing the road. Don't annotate others' good intentions mistakenly,that will not only let yourself suffer a los, and also make other people humiliated.
张三在山间小路开车,正当他悠哉地欣赏美丽风景时,突然迎面开来的货车司机摇下窗户大喊一声:“猪!”张三越想越气,也摇下车窗大骂:“你才是猪!”刚骂完,他便迎头撞上一群过马路的猪。
——不要错误地诠释别人的好意,那只会让自己吃亏,并且使别人受辱。
8.A little boy asks his father:" Does the father always knows more than the son?"the father answers:"Of course!""Who invented electric light ?"" Edison."" How hadn't Edison's father had invent electric light?"Sometimes the authority is just an empty hull,especially in this modern era of diversity and openness.   
小男孩问爸爸:“是不是做父亲的总比做儿子的知道得多?”爸爸回答:“当然啦!”“电灯是谁发明的?”“爱迪生。”“那爱迪生的爸爸怎么没有发明电灯?”
——权威往往只是一个经不起考验的空壳子,尤其在现今这个多元开放的时代。


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