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Post time 2007-3-28 21:02:33 |Display all floors

thank you very much

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Post time 2007-3-28 21:03:45 |Display all floors

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Originally posted by polaris1120 at 2007-3-28 10:22
When I didn't get the offer of my ideal university, I wad indulged in surfing the Internet for two months before I started my college life at that uni. I had not do well enough in the college entra ...

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Post time 2007-3-29 01:22:48 |Display all floors

I am not the best to answer..

Most of my dreams don't come true and I have only realised that I have these three treasures that gOd gave me..everything else is extra..You are a beautiful and Kind person and if something has just fallen through I know God will bless you with so much more because we have one great innate attribute that we have all been blessed with..you know what that is Xilaren? It is hope..Never give up hope..even if one dream has faded away..At least if that hasn't come true ..you had a dream..you are capable of feeling and longing and that is beautiful in itself. I had dreams when I was younger and mylife became topsy turvey but now I see all the little blessings..Like I come here..I know you and a couple of others are my only friends here..I even posted my songs today here  knowing that probably every one will laugh at me or just ignore it..it doesn't matter..I love to sing purely for the love and Joy I get from singing..if there is another soul that may understand my heart and share what I feel fine..if not still fine..I am not making a career from it to worry lol.
The fact that we have the capacity to feel is enough. If others cannot understand doesn't matter..I am so sorry if one of your dreams has caved in..know that you have a friend here always..even if I am not here every day..you have my email..and I will send you my hubby's skype addy..cos I use that one when I am here..but I will be in the U.K very soon..
Love and Hugz
You are the best..it is other's loss they cannot feel as you do!!

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Post time 2007-3-29 02:30:08 |Display all floors

BTW

I have a new set of dreams for us to run through when you comne to London Don't worry..We will fly with our own set of wings you and me..
Two fireballs in th ether..that will be nice..can't wait!!:)

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Post time 2007-3-29 03:07:51 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-3-28 20:57

Oh yes I used to be the happiest woman on earth.A very happy family.My family is again happy except for me.
You have acted really wise by protecting yourself from being hurt.
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So if you have been "depressed" for a few months and you are suffering from exhaustion, lack of energy, no motivation, changes in your body weight , extreme changes in your eating habit, losing sleep or sleeping more than usual, etc. Please consult with your family doctor. I am sure your family doctor can refer you to an approariate specialist.

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Post time 2007-3-29 04:41:52 |Display all floors

I have used the wrong word

This post was edited by xilaren at 2012-9-15 04:10
Originally posted by thunderbird at 2007-3-29 03:07


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Post time 2007-3-29 04:42:43 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 28/3/2007 10:45 PM

Thank you very much spook.No my problem is not a health problem.
I do need to talk to somebody who does not know me personally.Thank you very much for your willingness to help me.I have your e-m ...


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There are no Ugly women , only those with low self esteem .

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