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Are you shy? How to overcome shyness? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2007-3-11 10:47:18 |Display all floors
We all have experienced or heard the following talks

- If only I had told her "love her" we would have gotten married.
- If only I had accepted as an all-hand annual party speaker, I woud have gotten a promotion.
- If only I had raised my hand to ask or answer more questions in the class, my marks would have been excellent.
- If only I had banged on my boss' door for a raise, I would have gotten it.
- others,

All roads of those if-only-things lead to Rome of shyness. You see, shyness is not just a tiny hurdle, but a giant roadblock; Shyness is not just a slight cough or sneeze, but a serious disease

How do we break through the barrier?
How do we cure the disease?
How do we overcome shyness?

Come, come, don't be shy,
- to share your thoughts and suggestions.
- to talk  your/our shyness and fear over, and let them go.

Besides, whenever you hear yourself or others saying "if only", don't be hesitated to fix it by replacing with "next time". Oh, "if only" is the saddest phrase in the all world, it make us look backward and drags us down. "next time" makes us look forward and focus on the bright side and lifts us up.

[ Last edited by changzhou007 at 2007-3-13 02:21 AM ]

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Post time 2007-3-11 14:42:52 |Display all floors

Tonight I want to see my friend

He sent me a message today saying he misses me...

So I said I miss him also..

But I really want to see him tonight...but I am to shy to ask...so maybe I will miss the opportunity..

Because too silly and getting to late to make plans...so will sit at home and ponder...what to do..

But nothing is a good thing to do as well... :)
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Post time 2007-3-11 15:20:08 |Display all floors
Would you like me to be your messenger to tell him/her  what you really wanted !?

Originally posted by fluffy at 2007-3-11 14:42
He sent me a message today saying he misses me...

So I said I miss him also..

But I really want to see him tonight...but I am to shy to ask...so maybe I will miss the opportunity..

Because ...

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Post time 2007-3-11 15:21:05 |Display all floors

I dont know what to doooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The woman shouldnt ask the man on such short notice!
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Post time 2007-3-11 21:16:19 |Display all floors
Originally posted by fluffy at 2007-3-11 14:42
He sent me a message today saying he misses me...

So I said I miss him also..

But I really want to see him tonight...but I am to shy to ask...so maybe I will miss the opportunity..

Because ...


He sent you masage at first.
It was easy and natural to convey your feeling after that,but you lost the opportunity.
next time, come on.....

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Post time 2007-3-12 14:14:54 |Display all floors
Haha, are you too shy to say anything?

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Post time 2007-3-12 15:38:28 |Display all floors

A shy man is a quitter.

I feel I am so shy that I don't know how to express myself. So I think I miss the raise of the sun, but I don't want to miss next time.
Actions speak louder than words.

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