Author: springwater

Is it possible to be married and to be free? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2007-3-6 18:48:52 |Display all floors
Originally posted by sinfulangel at 2007-3-6 17:09
freedom is impossible during marriage...u have to give up something ... usually females have to sacrifice....



nowadays.... most girls give it up before marriage
Hatred is the product of vegetating in only one part of the world your whole life

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Post time 2007-3-7 01:49:52 |Display all floors
Originally posted by springwater at 2007-3-3 10:02
"Is it possible to be married and to be free?"
  
If you take marriage non-seriously, then you can be free. If you take it seriously, then freedom is impossible. Take marriage just a ...


No one can be free when there are kid(s) to be raised, mouths to be fed, house to be paid off, bills to be handled, cooperate ladder to be climbed, mother-in-laws to be pleased, taxes to be paid, etc.

If people run away from their responsiblilities, they would be hunted down, tracked down and put down.

Romantic love is an addmission ticket to an intimate relationship. People need mature love to maintain their relationships further into their journeys of growth.

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Post time 2007-3-7 01:51:18 |Display all floors
No one can be free when there are kid(s) to be raised, mouths to be fed, house to be paid off, bills to be handled, cooperate ladder to be climbed, mother-in-laws to be pleased, taxes to be paid, etc.

If people run away from their responsiblilities, they would be hunted down, tracked down and put down.

Romantic love is an addmission ticket to an intimate relationship. People need mature love to maintain their relationships further into their journeys of growth.

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Post time 2007-3-7 03:51:25 |Display all floors

you are doomed...

Originally posted by springwater at 2007-3-2 09:02 PM
"Is it possible to be married and to be free?"
  
If you take marriage non-seriously, then you can be free. If you take it seriously, then freedom is impossible. Take marriage just a ...


howdy--i am not sure i have the time & energy to finish & reading your thesis, but i can tell you this...when you're married, you're doomed & finished...your life will not be the same anymore & it doen't have to be on the bad side.  my philosophy is "no strings attached" .  don't do it, kiddo...remember this, "do as i say not as i do" .  but if you are considering yourself "no way out" then why not getting marry.  take care & be wisely!   peter  

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Post time 2007-3-7 06:19:34 |Display all floors
I think you can be free :) after all being free is an ilusion , as such if you have the imagination you can be free :)
There are no Ugly women , only those with low self esteem .

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Post time 2007-3-7 15:01:55 |Display all floors
Are you married?
If you did you are responsible person, or not you are intelligent person.
So anything depend on you how to see.
@--Aaron--@
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Post time 2007-3-8 15:57:04 |Display all floors
Maybe we are too young to understand love......

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