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Post time 2007-2-24 04:19:40 |Display all floors

I will be more clear

Originally posted by land_yu at 2007-2-24 03:29


oh, now i know ,the free that you have mentioned in "If you love somebody let him free" just will be given to people passed  your strict test. interesting!
it sound like you give no  ...



Of course they must first pass the test.It is not a difficult test.It is really easy for someone to pass.
All of us test people subconciously.This is what I mean.
When I am saying 'leave him or her free 'I mean that you leave him to have his own friends without interfering or complaining.You accept him to have a personal life.I never make scenes if I do not like something.
How can you leave him or her free before passing the test?This test shows you how much you can trust him.
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Post time 2007-2-24 04:39:43 |Display all floors

the test has to do with people's feelings and trust

Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-2-24 04:19



Of course they must first pass the test.It is not a difficult test.It is really easy for someone to pass.
All of us test people subconciously.This is what I mean.
When I am saying 'leave hi ...

Trust is essential in all loving relationships.Without it one person becomes suspicious ,anxious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated.You can not love someone completely unless you trust him completely.
When I have become certain that  someone loves me and he deserves my trust then I let him free .
I respect his needs ,his desires .I never want to be a heavy burden to him.
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Post time 2007-2-24 04:53:25 |Display all floors

I want to correct my mistake here.

Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-2-23 20:41


Would you like him to stay out of obligation?I would never accept that behaviour.
One more reasons that I leave people free including my friends is that I test their feelings to me.
Nobody ca ...




Would you like him to stay out of obligation.The correct sentence is 'do you want him to stay with you ,out of obligation?or out of true love?
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Post time 2007-2-24 11:56:56 |Display all floors

oh

Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-2-24 04:19



Of course they must first pass the test.It is not a difficult test.It is really easy for someone to pass.
All of us test people subconciously.This is what I mean.
When I am saying 'leave hi ...


so you want 100% occupy the one who u loved,no more space!!
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Post time 2007-2-24 15:14:24 |Display all floors

Set You Free Lyrics

Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-2-22 22:21
If you love somebody let him free.If he comes back to you ,he is yours ,if he doesn't he never was. In a loving relationship ,people need their own space.If we want to learn to love,we must first  ...


Your question was triggering a chain reaction in me, and a lot of things and scenes were flooding into my head and crashing. I failed to come up with a clear answer. Somehow, somewhere,  I ran into a song.

We often fool ourselves
And say that it's love
Only cause when it's gone We end up being lonely
So how are we to know That it just isn't so
That we just have to let each other go
There were many times
When we shared precious moments
But later realized they were only stolen moments
So how are we to know That it just wasn't so
That we just had to let each other go

If loving you is all that means to me
When being happy is all I hope you'd be
Then loving you must mean
I really have to set you free

Each day remains my love for you
Keeps growing stronger But everytime we meet
Makes leaving you so much harder
So how are we to know That this just wasn't so
That we just have to let each other go

If loving you is all that means to me
When being happy is all I hope you'd be
Then loving you must mean
I really have to set you free
Letting go is not an easy task
When smiling feels like
I must wear this lonely mask
It hurts deep inside And I just cannot hide
That there's anguish at the thought
That we should have to part

If loving you is all that means to me
When being happy is all I hope you'd be
Then loving you must mean
I really have to set you free

If loving you is all that means to me
When being happy is all I hope you'd be
Then loving you must mean
I really have to set you free

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Post time 2007-2-24 16:20:51 |Display all floors

what I mean with freedom

Originally posted by shelleybelly at 2007-2-24 11:56


so you want 100% occupy the one who u loved,no more space!!


A man inprisoned will never be happy.He will  be suffocated.
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Post time 2007-2-24 16:31:06 |Display all floors

the song is wonderful

Originally posted by changzhou007 at 2007-2-24 15:14


Your question was triggering a chain reaction in me, and a lot of things and scenes were flooding into my head and crashing. I failed to come up with a clear answer. Somehow, somewhere,  I ran  ...



What I want for him is to be free to think ,free to decide ,free to choose ,free to move ,free to feel .
It is him who will put me into his life.I won't do anything about that.I will just show my feelings.
I will protect him like a fragile flower.
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