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Post time 2007-2-22 23:37:24 |Display all floors
This is a good wish, but it just a wish....
Everybody is jealous more or less...

[ Last edited by whitney16 at 2007-2-22 11:40 PM ]
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Post time 2007-2-22 23:39:57 |Display all floors

But love without jealousy

it is possible.
Forgive my English

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Post time 2007-2-23 04:13:04 |Display all floors

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Originally posted by holidays at 2007-2-22 23:39
it is possible.

Jealousy is reasonable in love and also accepted.There are limits however.
Never make your lover lose his freedom.Only free people can be happy.
I really    love China,半个 中国 人

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Post time 2007-2-23 15:41:36 |Display all floors

how much spaceof the free?

Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-2-22 22:21
If you love somebody let him free.If he comes back to you ,he is yours ,if he doesn't he never was.
In a loving relationship ,people need their own space.If we want to learn to love,we must first  ...


it's hard to say..too much freedom would bring a irresponsible lover for yourself.. maybe one day,he will be out of your life and run away with sb else...


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Post time 2007-2-23 16:25:59 |Display all floors
:)
Shelley,your words remind me a song sung by Jeffe  Zhang Xizhe  " 过火"(maybe the translation is Overdo)
"It's me who gives you too much freedom......."
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Post time 2007-2-23 20:41:24 |Display all floors

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Originally posted by shelleybelly at 2007-2-23 15:41


it's hard to say..too much freedom would bring a irresponsible lover for yourself.. maybe one day,he will be out of your life and run away with sb else...




Would you like him to stay out of obligation?I would never accept that behaviour.
One more reasons that I leave people free including my friends is that I test their feelings to me.
Nobody can understand that I am testing him or her.I do it subconciously.
The ones who respond to my test succesfully are the ones who stay in my heart for ever.
I give them all my heart  to them.I am not used to giving half of the things.I give either everything or nothing.
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Post time 2007-2-24 03:29:05 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-2-23 20:41


Would you like him to stay out of obligation?I would never accept that behaviour.
One more reasons that I leave people free including my friends is that I test their feelings to me.
Nobody ca ...


oh, now i know ,the free that you have mentioned in "If you love somebody let him free" just will be given to people passed  your strict test. interesting!
it sound like you give no real free,in fact,  no free at all.
at first i think you prefer private space or feelings or something for people.

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