Author: rainbow4791

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Post time 2007-1-22 21:52:49 |Display all floors
no, you cann't.
lovemaking is the only  solution  between lovers who cannot express their love in  words.

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Post time 2007-1-23 14:21:18 |Display all floors

You asked him to choose

You or mahjong?

HE has chosen mahjong

Whatever his words say

his actions are clear.

It is sad but I am told that in China there are many men who cannot find a wife

So I think you can find better

"We know it's weakness, but the weakness is so strong!"

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Post time 2007-1-23 16:05:01 |Display all floors
no no no,no gambler,though he may not the gambler now,maybe just to paly for fun
but you said he always apologized and the still went to play and left you alone,I don't think it's a good sign
so pls think about it carefully
wish you luck:)
爱情什么都象,就是不象爱情...Love is a Fallacy

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Post time 2007-1-24 10:43:49 |Display all floors

i think at least now , you should think carefully if you can marry to him

don't  marry to him faster without thinking although everything for marrying is prepared.. you know ,, i don't think that man  who you can trust.   his words always change ,,now ,,before you marry to him ,,, he just can't change his bad habit... if you marry to him,,then you will see some worst thing what will happen to you ...

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Post time 2007-1-24 11:16:47 |Display all floors

share you a story

Originally posted by rainbow4791 at 2007-1-22 12:16
I have promised my bf to marry him after spring festival, both our family have know about it, and even his family have prepared the coming marriage ceremony. coz we both away from our hometown, so  ...


hehe...

in fact, ask for others with this question is not right...

can you marry with him?

in my view...prepare to marry is not so easy...

and there is no perfect person in the world...

I have heard a story, share with you:

a man face to his future father-in-law...he prepare to marry with his daughter, his future father-in-law asked several questions:

do you smoke?
oh, no, never...
do you drink wine?
oh, no never...
can you play with Mahjong?
no, I cannot...

....can you?

the result all know, the father-in-law object the future son-in-law...

btw...if you are not so satisfaction for him, it's danger for tomorrow..

love a person should contain his/her shortcoming...and if you can help him/her to correct it..you are best...

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Post time 2007-1-24 11:22:19 |Display all floors
Originally posted by dostoevskydr at 2007-1-22 17:38


DR's Advice: A sensible woman should be guided by her head when taking a husband, and by her heart when taking a lover.

why are man like this? does it mean woman will never find their true love? or man will complain that woman want so much? i am really confused too.
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Post time 2007-1-24 11:24:16 |Display all floors
Originally posted by dostoevskydr at 2007-1-22 17:49


"Before marriage, a man declares that he would lay down his life to serve you; after marriage, he won't even lay down his newspaper to talk to you.

Before marriage, a man will go home  ...

sorry i quote wrong just now.
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