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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!How to Move On From a Lost Love? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2007-1-2 10:18:19 |Display all floors

4 steps

Originally posted by xilaren at 2007-1-2 10:09

If somebody does not love you, oh you had better try to forget him .I can't love somebody who does not love me.
Only mutual love is important .

for man, pursue a girl who dislike him before is full of conquering ...

if success, he will cherish the girl...

4 steps:

dislike ---like ---love ---mutual love...

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Post time 2007-1-2 12:22:31 |Display all floors
How about coming home to see your parents?

They will always standby,...

I came home last two days with a sad mood,

But then I came back to school with a peaceful heart....

And a bosom friend can help.....

I am all fine now....

Good luck to you...sincerely,....

I love my parents and let me keep smiling all my life。。。

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Post time 2007-1-2 12:56:10 |Display all floors
Talk with friends. Try new things. Fill up your spare time. It's during spare time that you will think about him and be sad.

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Post time 2007-1-2 13:21:34 |Display all floors

Let it be go on.

I have such kind of feeling, It's was 8 years ago...

Only one way that works was..

If you miss, just let that missing thrills you for a moment.

When that feel is get little weak, count 10 to 0. and take deeeeeep breath.

Then you can came back to your real life for times..

It's not get out so easy. Better to take that not to try erase all of them.

Memories, pops up so suddenly. There is no way to block that...

Just let your heart feel it only for a moments. I think it's best way.

Still, I dreamming from time to time.

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Post time 2007-1-2 16:18:38 |Display all floors
I thought it was easy when I saw someone in sadness in the past..

But it is not until I go through it myself that I understand how hard and painful it is...

But let's believe we can go out of the pain and welcome the new life..:)
I love my parents and let me keep smiling all my life。。。

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Post time 2007-1-2 16:54:41 |Display all floors
My dear friends,
Thank you sooooo very very much for all your suggustions. I feel so touched that there are people who care about me.
I've tried to think about his bad things. But I still love him. They say, if you love someone and you will accept all the bad things he's got. I just accept all the bad things he's got and I don't really care. What do I do?
And I did try to fill up my spare time.  I still think about him during my spare time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's like when I'm reading, I think about him, imagining he's one of them. When I watch movies, I think about him, and whenever I see people in the movie hugging or kissing would make me cry. When I listen to music, I think about him. When I walk, I think about him. When I talk to my friends, and when people said something that reminds me of him, I think of him.
I JUST CAN"T GET OVER HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And I thought I had moved on last December, like about 15 days ago. But I actually didn't. Now I still think about him, and not only think about, I am still painful and miss alll the good times we've spent together.

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Post time 2007-1-2 18:53:38 |Display all floors
go out to have a drink!!!
I am not sure if this can work..
I am just joking around....
I am not serious...
I love my parents and let me keep smiling all my life。。。

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