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Post time 2006-11-14 20:00:53 |Display all floors
Originally posted by mattliao at 2006-11-14 13:27
hehe, i want to ask you: how to reject girl's love?


It won't be that easy as you have to  be curagerous enough to be yourself
in front of her.  

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Post time 2006-11-15 11:25:01 |Display all floors
i think the impotant of love is the honest,only the honest is the best .

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Post time 2006-11-15 12:16:23 |Display all floors

What women want

It's not WHAT you can do for a woman that creates attraction.

Women don't want "nice guys" (commonly referred to a DOOR MAT). Here is what a woman wants in a man:

2.) THE REAL MAN: Any man who exibits any combination of the following behaviors.

a.) Has a HIGH amount of self-esteem; views himself as high-status
b.) Doesnt need any outside approval or attention from ANYONE to be happy
c.) Unself-concious; doesnt care what others thinks of him
d.) Is NEVER insecure or nervous (espcially around desireable women), and he sub-communicates this in every little way
e.) Self-confident; NEVER arrogant or insecure, POSSIBLY slightly-cocky. May tease women in a friendly way
f.) Does not let outside events/other peoples opinions (See c.) emotionally destabilize him; is always in control of his emotions
g.) Takes full responsibility for all of his actions
h.) Never whines or complains to get approval or empathy; always accepts the world for exactly what it is
i.) Judges people based on character and personality.. NOT outward appearance/material items
j.) Can be brutally honest (while still being respectful) with everyone(including himself) and is not afraid to put someone in their place when they are out of line; isn't afraid to speak his mind
k.) Isn't afraid to draw boundaries
l.) Mature.. in every sense of the word
m.) Has a PURPOSE in life that he never betrays and pro-actively/ambitiously works towards
n.) Goal-oriented thinker; favors long-term gratification over short (See l.)
o.) Isn't afraid to lead and take control of a situation; doesnt have hesitancy moving foward
p.) Never feels ashamed for his sexual desires & needs; always sexually confident
q.) Is always "himself", and is content with whatever that is (See a.)
r.) Doesn't tolerate disrespect to himself, his property, or his time
s.) Doesn't let women use their sexual power to get anything (whether it be money, or self-respect) from him
t.) Loyal
u.) Compassionate
v.) Independant
w.) Is perfectly happy and fufilled being single; sure, he'd like to find an attractive/beautiful/intelligent woman to spend time with but he doesnt NEED it
x.) Comfortable in the presence of other high-status and/or sophisticated people
y.) Doesnt experience jealousy; is perfectly fine when a woman exersizes her independence and encourages it; enjoys it when others shine
z.) Strong/confident/powerful body language (Stands up straight, doesnt break eye contact, doesnt have any nervous ticks, doesnt have quick/jerky movements, leans back out of self-confidence and lack of nervousness)
a1.) Doesn't feel the need to compensate for himself through gifts, expensive restaurants (Doing either of these things from a place of confidence and high-value is on the other hand OKAY)
a2.) DOESNT invest all his emotion/time into a relationship too early on. He remains an ambiguous challenge

It's not WHAT you can do for a woman that creates attraction. It's how you make them feel. (regardless of looks though the basics need to be there such as being in shape, good hygiene, comb your hair, dress nice, etc). Be a GOOD, BALANCED man. Being "nice" makes women think you have no confidence or self-esteem and that you give gifts because you are lacking the confidence to win her over being YOU.

You can still be a GOOD man without being a DOOR MAT.
You can NOT be a nice guy (Door mat) and create attraction unless the woman has her own issues.
Peace!  Be strong and be brave!!

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Post time 2006-11-16 12:28:19 |Display all floors
you  can make friends with her at first,then you can make deeper comunication.

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Post time 2006-11-17 11:37:11 |Display all floors

too simple

give her present,
chat with her
make her happy
and give her climax

but the most  make her feel you are a man , can protect her, give her happinese.

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Post time 2006-11-17 11:40:27 |Display all floors
woman want climax more than anything

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