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Post time 2006-10-8 21:15:09 |Display all floors
Why do you ask so ?
He is well pass 50 ,,,
We love our home,though our feet can leave it,yet our hearts can't.

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Post time 2006-10-8 23:25:16 |Display all floors
whitney.

I am so sorry to hear of your troubles with your father...  I know it is difficult to not feel hatred toward him for all the trouble he causes you and you Mother...   

but perhaps know that is not a bad heart that drives to him to act this way... but the disease of alcoholism...  he is not a bad person, but only has a bad time with alcohol..

hugs to you...:)

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Post time 2006-10-9 06:54:42 |Display all floors

yes it is a human weakness..

Originally posted by whataboutbob at 2006-10-8 23:25
whitney.

I am so sorry to hear of your troubles with your father...  I know it is difficult to not feel hatred toward him for all the trouble he causes you and you Mother...   

but perhaps k ...


your mother is very patient..and may God help you both..
and your faher..
i pray he can get help...
love and hugs from your sis too..
qin qin..xxxx

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Post time 2006-10-9 09:45:39 |Display all floors
Originally posted by whataboutbob at 2006-10-8 23:25
whitney.

I am so sorry to hear of your troubles with your father...  I know it is difficult to not feel hatred toward him for all the trouble he causes you and you Mother...   

but perhaps k ...


I don't want to dislike him, because he is my father, but everytime he was drunk, i was sad,,,,,

Sometimes i think he is not a good husband ...., not a good father.
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Post time 2006-10-9 10:03:52 |Display all floors
Originally posted by yanjiaren at 2006-10-9 06:54


your mother is very patient..and may God help you both..
and your faher..
i pray he can get help...
love and hugs from your sis too..
qin qin..xxxx

Sis,  i have ever asked my mother why did she marry  my father,,,, so silly question,right?
  My mother said time has been passed a lot,  let it be,,,,,,
  
  My mother just told me that i should find a good man but not like my father,,,,,

  The lucky thing is my father isn't like my uncle, who is going to divoce  his wife for some reasons,,,,,,,

  Sis, 家家有本难念的经 Every family has some sort of trouble
  It's hard to tell,,,,,,

   I want just a happy family,,,,,,,,

[ Last edited by whitney16 at 2006-10-9 10:05 AM ]
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Post time 2006-11-6 17:23:17 |Display all floors
I love my Dad,He does not smoke or drink.............

My Dad, I love you! No matter what happen in the future,i love you.

You are so kind that everytime when i cry,you come around and comfort me...although I just can't stop sobbing... You are the only one who understand my feeling in the family.

I love my dear Dad.

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Post time 2006-11-6 17:33:43 |Display all floors
Why not telling him your thought and getting  something to avert his attention from smoke? For example ,make sure there is something in his pocket to eat whenever he wonna smoke

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