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Post time 2006-9-4 13:40:37 |Display all floors
Originally posted by ivyfantasy at 2006-9-4 13:33
i think he won't mind ba....
sometimes i do dress like that....


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Post time 2006-9-4 16:15:55 |Display all floors

my response as a woman..

take this from a guoilao..

i have mixed in many cultures and have found one thing..quite funny..

when i was in Meiguo..
Harlem to be exact..

all the girls in that part of ny show off their boobs and booty and shake that thing yo'
like there is no tomorrow..
i wore long dresses..had about 20 little plaits in my hair with flowers..and wore always pretty chinese jackets...
i used to go to the bank which is 20 blocks away from my qingren's house..
now i am not what you would call conventionally beauty yeah?

i usually would have on average..
20/30 hello's from the menfolk..

and on a good day 2 marriage proposals!!!!

now i am not by nature a self confident girl..and i always in my dress keep my sexuality under wraps..i know women have this wmd but i never used it..
yeah men like the instant thrill of looking at a c or d cup dangling out of a tight fittling little number..or the tatoo..stuck on a butt cheek bulging out of a pair of tight jeans..i even catch the roving eye of my qingren as he eyes up a couple of midtown intellectual uni chicks as they board the subway..and oh how my heart sinks lol..but as he says that is just window shopping..he comes home to me..

anyway the point is that there is so much of this sexy stuff going around that even men are getting tired of it..
all the time..
like i posted in the other thread..
a greek traditional saying..
be a lady outside..
and a whore in the bedroom..

i think it is nice to keep that sexiness for your man only..
like a hidden .treasure..
make him also feel special by giving him something unique..
let the other men look at you as a lady..
let your man.by keeping his treasure from others and only for himself..treat you as his queen..

when my qingren says to me that in ten years in the west he has found no other girl traditional like me..so he says i should be confident in myself more..it makes my heart melt..

yeah i would dress sexy for my man..
but for my man ONLY!!!!!

even the attention i got from the men..was respectful..including the marriage proposals..
and when i turn round politely and say to them i have a hen hao husband..it does give me a thrill lol..when i tell my qingren this..it makes him happy..he has his own treasure..

women are a treasure..so we should stay as a treasure..
are we Jade?
or Pebble?

it all depends on what you want to be..
ouch women's libbers will curse me now lol..
sisters this is my personal opnion.that's all..
we can agree to disagree..lol

ni de xilaren sis

btw can we really define what sexy is?
western media which is ruling the fashion industry churns out images of what we are forced or coerced into thinking is sexy..give me a han in han fu and a huzi and i tell you what is SEXY lol..


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[ Last edited by yanjiaren at 2006-9-4 04:26 PM ]

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Post time 2006-9-4 17:02:35 |Display all floors

It's up to yourself

I always respect my wife's own choice; I never interfere with her decision.
But she never dresses so sexy in public, just ordinary.:)
One thing that's truly hard to eradicate is the idea.

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Post time 2006-9-4 17:06:05 |Display all floors
Originally posted by yanjiaren at 2006-9-4 16:15
take this from a guoilao..

i have mixed in many cultures and have found one thing..quite funny..

when i was in Meiguo..
Harlem to be exact..

all the girls in that part of ny show off thei ...


I think many would say you are JADE today

but after being "USeD"   and discarded ,

A Pebble or Stone !!!


This is how life is!!!!
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Post time 2006-9-4 17:21:16 |Display all floors

virginity doesn't come into this issue..

it is atitude lol...

here we are talking dress code..not sex..that's in the other thread..you are like me ..a wild one in going off topic lol!!

like i said..it is my personal opinion..
if a man dumps me it doesn't mean i am worthless..i would view it as his loss..
but i am not for sale anyway..

jade is priceless..well i was trying to use that as an analogy..from a daoist perspective..
Lao Zi talks of looking for the jade in the heart..
women are viewed too much as a commodity to be traded with a price tag..so unfortunately are men..often girls will go for the guy with the fatter bank account..
this is what i meant..

it also applies to dress..
everyone has a choice..
either we can join in the cattle market..or not go in for sale..

it is up to everyone to make that choice..i will not judge anyone..
it was only a shock and surprise to me that although people view the west as promiscuos..i see elements of people wanting back some of the good old traditional ways..
love and hugs..
keep those posts coming..i love it..

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Post time 2006-9-4 17:23:01 |Display all floors
What if your husband does not care what you wear and how you dress???? The first thought that 'invades' your mind will most probably be: he does not love me!

If your answer is yes, you'll be able to understand why your hubby minds so much when you dress sexy...!

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Post time 2006-9-4 17:24:44 |Display all floors
Originally posted by yanjiaren at 2006-9-4 17:21
it is atitude lol...

here we are talking dress code..not sex..that's in the other thread..you are like me ..a wild one in going off topic lol!!

like i said..it is my personal opinion..
if a  ...



Ai-ya - Pls don't preach western NO virgins to us here!!!

It is a sicko Jacko wacko topic!!!
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