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Originally posted by travolta at 2006-8-22 21:48
it's a miserable outcome of monogamy policy,the tragedy will never happen if a man can marry more than one wives at the same time,a nice teapot always needs several teacups to match,right?
Who says the man gets to be the teapot. It's the woman that's all curvy and full of warmth, and the man that's all empty and shallow. BAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! I'm TOTALLY kidding everyone, I just had to bust Travolta.
As for the original question, it's really tough. I can't imagine someone doing that to me, I'd be upset beyond words, I'd be confused, hurt, feeling alone... how could he do that to her after just making wedding vows?!? I really don't think anyone can help with that decision, she has to feel out if the marriage is worth saving, and HE has a LOT to do to drag himself up from the muddy swamp pit he dug himself, then fell into.
On a personal note, I was cheated on and it didn't end up working out even though I forgave him and tried to put it in the past. Nope. He did it again. And again. He saw I was a sucker. Don't let her be a sucker. Either divorce or... or.... something, but don't just let it go like it can be forgotten.