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Post time 2006-8-17 22:42:04 |Display all floors
pls do dress well...and behave in a good manner....otherwise..i can just walk away .. pretend we are dtrangers...ahaha
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Post time 2006-8-17 23:21:25 |Display all floors

Sartorial elegance



Well said, sinfulangel.

Even in upmarket restaurants, in the evenings, I have seen many (presumably affluent) Chinese men
wearing the ubiquitous slacks/polo shirt combination that makes the notorious Mao suit look glamorous.
Such uninspiring attire is usually in contrast to the splendid couture adorning their female companions.

And gentlemanly conduct is also rare when the Chinese male is socialising with the fairer sex. I have yet
to witness a Chinese male invite a female companion to enter a room, or sit down, first.

Indeed, at Chinese dinner parties, the ladies often resemble "spare parts" in a garage, as the men
indulge in boorish behaviour and monotonous drink-related rituals.

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Post time 2006-8-17 23:33:33 |Display all floors
Originally posted by johnners at 2006-8-17 23:21
Even in upmarket restaurants, in the evenings, I have seen many (presumably affluent) Chinese men
wearing the ubiquitous slacks/polo shirt combination that makes ...



Seems you are so proud to your well mannered, upper class behavior... may I know which higher society are you coming from? Which country?

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Post time 2006-8-17 23:42:03 |Display all floors
As to the dressing style,
It reminds me when the first time i saw my boss's son, he's wearing so casual that i even can't imagine the guy is the son of my boss who used to be formal, calm, and glamorous. Many people have the same earnings and social positions, but their dressings are so different. That's really their personal matter. Non business of us. Unless you are his/her boss.

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Post time 2006-8-18 08:33:09 |Display all floors
about dressing...they really need to match well...from head to toe...and use perfume preferrable..

casual..formal...or erotic...etc...its all cool with me..but has to dress nicely at the right time...
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Post time 2006-8-18 09:46:54 |Display all floors
(11) Do not take for granted that sexual intercourse with uncouth movement can impress your sexual potency, being gentle will really help your lover to reach sex climax.

(12) Do not tend to overstate or crow about during the feast to attract other's eyes, that will make you seemed very flimsy.

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Post time 2006-8-18 20:19:34 |Display all floors

Clarification

northwest,

Thankyou for your response. However, you draw some baseless inferences from my posts by interpreting my remarks as products of an "upper class" or "higher society". I really don't subscribe to such elitist
thinking. You seem to press me for my nationality; again this is irrelevant, as there aren't entire nations
that are better behave than others. It comes down to individuals, and their personal attitudes.
An individual's wealth, background, occupation or education should not be taken as deciding factors in
whether someone behaves with personal grace and dignity, and consideration for others.

Indeed, in China, as with other countries, I often find the most charming hosts to be in the
countryside. They may not have the material resources that city dwellers have, but their
unfettered generosity of spirit is often humbling, and they have generally not succumbed to the
vacuous pressures found in the urban rat race.

Behaving as a gentleman, or lady, comes down to personal choice.

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