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I am working on a post about cyberbullying, and in order to get a clearer picture of what a cyberbully is I am reviewing some very old threads from xiao-meow (xiao-wuer, sinfulangelS, the same person) and sinfulangel. |
I MUST say I am so shocked at some of the things xiao said, and sinfulangel tolerated for so long. When I came to Chinadaily I knew there was heat between them, and I knew foul words were said on both sides, and I went back a bit to investigate, but not back far enough. Well, I have gone back as far as possible now, and I can clearly, surely, say xiao said the most disgusting vile things I have ever heard anyone say online or in real life. And whenever sinfulangel said vulgar things to her, it was only after LONG provocation and trying to get rid of xiao in milder ways first, such as "whatever xiao, sorry you don't like me", etc.
I am not just talking about occasional name calling or childishness, I am talking about following her around from thread to thread, suggesting sexual and violent acts, creating whole threads for the sole purpose of intimidating her, and more. Cyberbullying is more than just arguing or teasing, it is manipulative, two-faced harassment in which the bully will persist indefinitely and viciously at one target, meanwhile pretending to be sweet and innocent to everyone other than the target. I completely believe xiao abused sinfulangel's email as previously suggested. Anyone still communicating with her might want to be careful.
I truly hope that no one here dislikes sinfulangel based on her arguments with xiao, or things xiao has said about her. Though sinfulangel has talked freely about sex (this is the love section), she did nothing to invite xiao's harassment. I ask each and every member to try to put aside anything of that sort and judge sinfulangel with new eyes, for yourself. She has more patience than most of you will ever realize.
Sinfulangel, I wish I had seen some of these posts a long time ago. I would have had her banned immediately. You tolerated a lot, and I hope xiao is not bothering you through email or any other means. Please don't tolerate her in any way, not one more minute. There will be resources for help in the cyberbullying thread coming soon. If you need help sooner, PM me or research it online.
Big Long Hug for sinfulangel I hope you stay around Chinadaily and your time here is peaceful and fun.
[ Last edited by threebowls at 2006-7-16 12:09 PM ]