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do guy will care the girls who dislike doing houseworking? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2006-7-15 02:55:17 |Display all floors
Originally posted by jane99 at 2006-7-14 13:53
i live with my colleauges,three men,only a girl of myself,and I am a girl dislike doing houseworking,so my colleagues said our room is quite chos,and i am seldom doing houseworking,in fact,i am gir ...


Some men and women enjoy doing household chores. Many try to avoid them like a deadly disease. I believe it is your choice whether to do your household chores or not. However, the bottom line is that someone has to do it. Unless you are those people who can't detect dirty floor and sink at all. If you belong to that group of people, of course you need not concern when or who to do what.

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Post time 2006-7-15 10:14:07 |Display all floors
my girlfriend and i  share the housework ,when i am busy,she will do it and vice versa.
if wa are both free ,we will do toghter,i think it is also enjoying life!

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Post time 2006-7-15 16:17:54 |Display all floors

me neither

me neither ,i am confident in my work ,in my study ,but i am not confident in the housworking ,cuz i am very careless.
my bf always scolded me for that,. he is a tradtioanl man ,in his opinion a women must be good at housing .
i hate so much ...............it consumes my enger,my time and ..............

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Post time 2006-7-15 17:13:32 |Display all floors
Originally posted by shockhu at 2006-7-15 16:17
me neither ,i am confident in my work ,in my study ,but i am not confident in the housworking ,cuz i am very careless.
my bf always scolded me for that,. he is a tradtioanl man ,in his opinion a w ...

I am afraid I will  meet  a girl like you! I think a girl could do a little housing-work rather almost  not !
you can image that if you don't do it as a wife ,then who will do it ? your husband ? your parents ? ...no no ,that's up to  you!
your husband must  try his best on his work to sustain the whole family . your parents should resign from those work and have a rest !
if not you ,who do it ?do you think ?

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Post time 2006-7-15 23:39:51 |Display all floors

It is just the living attitude

In my opinion most  of men care their gfs or wifes whether she likes or dislikes doing housework,because in many people's mind that women do houseworkis someting traditional and no doubt about it,maybe nowadays because of the coming new western mind ,people think one is a single and the core of everything,we must change the traditional mind,but I think there are many traditional customs  are so precious and significant for chinese and especial for chinese women.In this topic,doing  housework,I think it is not the specific duty for men or women,it is the duty for everyone lives with others.NObody want to live in the dirty enviroment and so everyone should do someting for the clear enviroment,such as doing housework.NO men like lazy women and no women like lazy men.

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Post time 2006-7-16 02:04:58 |Display all floors
Housework is not something most enjoy doing, but it's something you should know how to do. Put on some of your favorite music so you can entertain yourself while you do it.

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Post time 2006-7-16 05:48:28 |Display all floors

Reply #1 jane99's post

do guy will care the girls who dislike doing houseworking?

i live with my colleauges,three men,only a girl of myself,and I am a girl dislike doing houseworking,so my colleagues said our room is quite chos,and i am seldom doing houseworking,in fact,i am girl do not wanna myself invole in trivial things,and dislike doing houseworking

But sometimes,once i wanna do house working, i will do it quite well,take it as a joy ,and enjoyment. But i think if a man take trivial things too much time and energy,his mind will become quite narrow,i wanna my life keep fresh,new fresh air pull into my life,i need my life open to the outward,so..................

but men will care much about their wife or gf about it ? will they care about wheather their gf dislike doing douseworking,I am single now,so everything i wann be to get is,just :simple,colurful~~~`


A bit of a wishful thinking but not a bad idea as it reminds me of a book I read long time ago, In Praise of Idleness.

For me, I find it a bit hard to determine what becomes or makes a narrow or broad mind.  Certainly, not a liking or disliking for housework.  Probably, education.  Probably, exposure.

Well, let's just say you are simply lazy. :)

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