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Originally posted by caringhk at 2006-7-13 12:45
What is wrong with a friendly circle???
Are you jealous or fear beyond your control???
What is wrong with it is when it turns into harassment - gossiping about others, scaring away new members, distancing old members for fear they are being talked about behind their backs and feeling their old friends are no longer trustworthy, so who can they trust, so they don't come around as much anymore. Also, abusing the rating system and encouraging others to do so even after you have been asked to stop.
You basically formed a gang, a group of people who "live" in a certain place, gang up on some, and try to persuade newbies to join them. The newbies sometimes fear if they don't act friendly to you, you will be mean to them next. I basically said that already, and I will not say it again. So stop the covert schemes & plots against me and other members, and drop the subject.
Suggesting I am jealous or fear you is absolutely ridiculous and way out of line for how you should talk to a moderator. And writing in big red letter that I am the one scaring away members is not only unfounded, but suspiciously defensive and EXTREMELY rude. And I believed you were such a calm kind buddhist man, making the boards a friendly place. I am surprised and disappointed at your behaviour behind the scenes. I made friendly suggestions through PM for you to stop doing certain things but you simply did them through email instead.
No wonder you and xiao are such good friends. You are both masters at appearing innocent, yet being crafty enough to sneak all around the rules, seeing how far you can go without breaking them. You have both found a weakness in me, my patience and forgiveness, and have been testing it, you for only a short time, but xiao for a very long time. I can assure you I will not be as patient with the current or next bullies as I was with xiao.