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Ok now I'm confused, how does your husband cheating on you have anything to do with being a housewife after you are married?|
babyfox, you have trust issues. You can't just assume that your husband is going to defiitly cheat on you unless 1) you have already cheated on him and are waiting for him to find out, 2) there are huge trust issues and he has done this to you before. Why would you stop him from being an outside worker and taking care of the family while you raise children and/or do all the housechores just because of what? Because you don't know if he will or will not do something in the future? OMG DO NOT WAKE UP TOMORROW! Maybe the world will end! At least there is more evidence that this will happen then your future husband whom you may or may not know will for sure take a miss on the side.
I saw someone say that they thought it was pretty hard to be the housewife. Yes, it is actually and yes that is only if you are a good one. In my family, we have a huge house and my husband, mother (in law) and our baby all live in this house (along with myself of course). Taking care of Yu Qi (my son) pretty much required my full attention, but when he is with his nana I am constantly picking up all my husbands mess (because like all men :p he leaves a mess whenever he leaves a room) as well as washing clothes everyday and handwashing my sons clothes, cooking our normal three meals a day as well as making small eats for guests (because of the baby, we have them daily) (also, we cook everything from scratch as well as make our own broths and pickled foods, like most chinese do). A housewifes day is really busy. By the end of the day I am so freakin tired. You might think raising a child is easy and doesn't require much time or effort but you've got another thing coming completely. It's alot of fun, but it's the hardest thing you will ever do in your life.
Now I work though, since I really hate to stay indoors so much and I am really needing some cool down time (would you believe my job is like taking a break compared to staying at home all day?). But then I teach children during the day, and I still come home and help out.