I am not sure the meaning of " shame" .
If it is a pitiful thing, i agree.
If it is a disgraceful thing , i am not agree.
They made a wrong dicision, they've also payed a great price for it.
People make many mistakes in one's lifetime, some small even don't be recognized, but the mistakes related to love, marriage are payed much attention .
Increae of divorce rate in China tell us the true that is not any different between western and eastern volues indeed. When people become rich, they will pay more attention with theirself and become less tolerance to everyone surounding them.
Divorce rates going up in China is not such a bad thing.
The reason many couples divorce in China is because men treat women very badly (not always, but far too often and that does lead to divorce these days). It is good that girls have the "divorce option" to escape from cheating/abusive/bad husbands.
Originally posted by hellen1815 at 2006-5-26 15:39
People with financial support will expose their stincts more. Mankind have deep-rooted bad habits, which will expose when the conditions become mature.
I agree with you, female should have equal right as man, including ask for apart from parntership. Moreover, woman who be treated unfairly should be urged to claim compensation.