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Post time 2006-5-5 15:04:29 |Display all floors

Reply #11 leeshing's post

Falls on 16th of MAY

I think the mid-Autumn is special to chinese.......
even the young ones gets the lantern
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Post time 2006-5-5 15:19:03 |Display all floors
force-one, don't be disappointed . This is for you.......
love between mother and child.JPG

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Post time 2006-5-5 16:00:59 |Display all floors
Reply #15 caringHK' post

Yeah,
the Mid-autumn day is important to chinese.

In their eyes,the day means the whole family reunion.

Sitting together,talking,enjoying the deliciouse food(especial  mook cake )....

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Post time 2006-5-5 16:04:08 |Display all floors

Reply #17 limark's post

YES, mooncakes... to remind how the mongolian were defeated

and the lovely lady Chang-Er.......

cheers as it is now only few months away.

From Heart's rock, i can see son ask mummy,give me milk!!!
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Post time 2006-5-5 17:21:36 |Display all floors

it's really a good point~~~~

i didn't realize this culture shock before~~but anyway, it's a good point.

after thinking again and again, i'm sure i haven't spoken I LOVE YOU to my mum ever. i don't know what kind of feeling to her now after she did something to me. of couse, i'm sure she loves me; i still remember how she husk the pear for me; i still remember how worried she is when i was sick; i still remember how tired she looked after me for a whole night after i had a fever...........but i'm also sure she is the one who hurts me the most heavily. i don't mean i hate her by saying that, but i do feel sad when i recall her words, most of the time, i can't help crying by recalling her words and what she has done to me. therefore, i don't dare to see her now (my parents got a divorce four years ago). i tried to avoid her, even though it's a very short time to go from my dad's home. one year ago, i visited her on Chinese New Year. i even didn't know what to say. i felt neverous, uncomfortable when being with her. actually, i don't think she was that happy seeing me. the way she talked to me is just like she was talking to a normal friend, not to a daughter. that's why i felt uncomfortatble. at last i didn't stay long there. every time i come back home ( once a year on Chinese New Year), i try not to think about the question: should i visit her? frankly speaking, i want to, but i don't dare to go. i'm afraid of that feeling, i'm afraid of the way she talks to me. i'm afraid of her! it's really a sad thing for the daughter and mum, but that's exactly what we are now......

i call my dad and my uncle/aunt once a week, but i don't have the courage to call my mum. i only called her once when i was a freshman. i still remember the way she spoke, so polite to me......

.......................enough...................

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Post time 2006-5-5 17:29:28 |Display all floors

Reply #19 cecilia_xiao's post

Good to mend the fence.

Perhaps it takes several visit to let the breaking of ice to feel better.
As i know, most mum love their kids with their heart even though how bad they have been. You can se this when there are sad occasions.

cheers.
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Post time 2006-5-5 23:22:49 |Display all floors
Nice to see your replies
As i said before, i am learning more about chinesse culture, and i always respect others for their opinions and comments in this forum. For Jeijoa - i never said i like it or i don't like chinesse or this country, the topic was about love and understandings of  feeling's people in this case about our mothers, i like this country and i can't stop visiting it because i living here in China
For Hearthome -  beautifull picture, thanks
For Vivienruan -  thank you for your friendship and also i open for new friends, as a friend i am very loyal and respectfull with them, also for Cecilia, touching story, thank you
I always like to talk and to exchange opinions, i feel i learning more and more from everybody comments, the only way to learn ( makes you bigger in your soul ) in this life is talking, and to be simple, i think is the key for the succes,
my greetings for all your replies above

Thank you

Force_one

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