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Post time 2006-4-16 16:26:20 |Display all floors
Maybe you don't belive that I haven't chased any girl in my past life,but it is ture.
As a man aged 25,I think I have failed in the fields of love.
I was born in rural earas,both my parents were peasants.They sent me to school and tried their best to
help me with my study as many chinese peasants did.
Perhaps I am with a little wisdom,I did good in my study life.From primary school to high school,I always
got better success.
I think maybe I have some difficulties in connecting with the girls.I will be brush when speak to them.I
don't know why I will show my shy character although I do my best to control that.
During my university life,many boys around me had got their love.But I didn't,the first step was difficult for me.
The trouble around me had spurred me to search for the reason why I failed in the field of love.the
environment of my  childhood appeared to be the most reason.I can't say clear about this.
When graduated ,I became a teacher in a middle school.There I met a girl  ,and we mixed in well.But it
was only a short time before we are parted.
I wrote an article about that story and the reader would know a litter better about me and the relation with
that girl .

http://wind.yinsha.com/letters/show.phtml?aid=2004042915080081

The story sounds delicious but it is a pity that it only lasted a short time.I haven't got a feeling of loving others or being loved by others.So my feeling of love is still   blank.
My major in university is computer.But I love chinese literature,so I prepared for the exam to the graduate school of literature.Likely I passed the exam and became a graduate student of chinese department in a famous
university.
Now I have studied in the university again about one year,the love for me is still blank.
where is my love?

[ Last edited by spr_shine at 2006-4-16 04:33 PM ]

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Post time 2006-4-16 17:42:53 |Display all floors

i'm glad to share you experience of love

shyness is the inbred characteristic of   human .i was built up in  one's  childhood.i was a  shy boy too. i  think
the characteristic which can be changed hardly depend on the whole enviroment around you.i  was confused
when i turned into college guy three years ago.i  afraid of  that  no girls  are  fond of  the kind of  boy  as  me.
now,i'm enjoying my  love.what i wanna say is a liitle shy boy can also be cute.the charm of  love lies on
different lovers have different  storise.
you can't  escape when  the love is  upcoming.

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Post time 2006-4-16 20:21:19 |Display all floors

are you mature enough to love someone(I don't mean making love)?见利忘x

I read your post that you'd sex with a married woman
http://bbs.chinadaily.com.cn/vie ... &extra=page%3D3

She has a car. She sent you gift. She also told you she had a warm family. I doubt that you're 26 year old. You're like a child. You forget ethnic when you see free sex and free gift. If I am an employer, I'll not recruit person like you. high education low EQ. Can't control himself when see benefit. 见利忘x

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Post time 2006-4-17 11:08:07 |Display all floors
love is over rated.
stop looking for it, it will find you.
and check yourself.. maybe you are doing something to turn girls away

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Post time 2006-4-17 11:37:47 |Display all floors
peaches is right.

you will learn by experience and observing or reading more.
Love can't rush dude.

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