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Post time 2006-4-4 12:50:01 |Display all floors
hey dear all

im so confused recently. i DO need your help.

im a chinese girl. i had a boyfriend from ireland. we have been together for about one and half year.
we have broken up for 3 times during the time.  it's always because he doesn't love me or doesn't love me alot enough...which is sad for me, isn't it?

the latest breaking up is in this Feburary. i don't know where we are standing now. hard to tell...

anyway, he is leaving china soon, i mean this April. he has been asking me to go to ireland for a trip for long time. i do want to go actually. and i do think this is the last chance even he told me the door is always open.

but i asked many people around me, none of them think i should take the invitation. the reason is because we are no more boyfriend and girlfriend, or because we have no plan to get married, or i should not use his money while has no relationship with him, or i will feel extremely bad after i come back to china while he is not here any more.

i don't know. i really don't know.

please give me some advise.

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Post time 2006-4-10 14:01:50 |Display all floors
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Post time 2006-4-10 15:41:23 |Display all floors

thanks

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Post time 2006-4-15 14:13:16 |Display all floors
well....give up ..girl...just-give-up!
u know what, I dont think he is serious on this issue,at least not as u do.
Forget this all, and start ur new life.

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Post time 2006-4-19 15:21:12 |Display all floors

Forget it

Nothing is impossible for a willing heart.
心之所愿,无所不成!

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Post time 2006-4-19 15:25:41 |Display all floors

Begin a new life

Never trust him ,since he dosn't love you ,why do you live with him and why love him ,this is not love ,love is a feeling between both ,Learn to give up and begin another new life ,try to love who love you ,you will get your happiness !
Nothing is impossible for a willing heart.
心之所愿,无所不成!

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Post time 2006-5-10 23:17:37 |Display all floors
if you just wanna visit the country or have a nice holiday then go!! but ~ pay for yourself. dont use his money. He doesnt love you then dont make him look down on you. you can give up the relationship but cant give up ur self-estem. that s what i think. but u know, its ur chose, up to u......

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