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Need moderating advice please
Hi, I am not sure if I should do something about these new things happening in FLR. It is childish, mean, nasty behavior. |
A particular member (caringhk) is sending PM's to his "inner circle", spreading gossip about other members, and trying to recruit new members to be in his group. When a new member comes, he sends them very long PM's telling them who is bad and good, trying to get the new member on his side, like it is a gang or war. I have seen a few of these PM's, they were shown to me by a concerned new member, and I got some as freakyqi when he tried to recruit me to be part of his group. If I was a new member and got his PM's I would be very put-off, and maybe scared and not want to speak freely here for fear he will put ME on his blacklist next!
Please understand what I am saying, it is more than just name-calling, he is trying to gather people on his side, recruit new members to be nasty to others to drive them away, even giving them examples of ways to insult them. Publicly he is pretending to be sweet and innocent, and quotes Buddha, but in PM's he is like turning into a monster at people.
And he & xiao-meow rate other member's posts -10 everywhere to make them lose credits, while giving each other +10's just to raise credits. I know that is not too important, but it is annoying to someone who wants to reach the next level and they are keeping her from getting there just for spite.
ALSO, they have a plot to "terminate" me as moderator (caringhk's words). Xiao-meow was xiao-wuer, who was banned, and now they are trying to set me up to make me look like a bad mod so they can complain about me. I'm not worried, I do nothing wrong so I'm not worried, I just thought I'd let you know you may get complaints about me if you haven't already.
[ Last edited by threebowls at 2006-7-9 04:30 PM ]