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Post time 2006-2-27 09:40:22 |Display all floors
My guess is that maybe it manifests for certain around puberty.... no... I've read of people who said that even at kindergarten age they knew they liked the same sex.... Hmm.
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Post time 2006-2-27 09:52:39 |Display all floors

yeah

actually I forgot to add that on.. i read that some ppl, they knew they were "left-handed" at a very young age.. I don't know but here's a scary one for all of us under 30... I heard we only know our TRUE sexuality, by 30.. hmmmm...

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Post time 2006-2-27 09:54:11 |Display all floors

i donot against it .but dont want it happen to me.

n i like film"brokeback mountain" very much

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Post time 2006-2-27 09:56:09 |Display all floors

Part of a report By Paul Cameron, Ph. D.

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   What causes homosexual desire?
If homosexual impulses are not inherited, what kinds of influences do cause strong homosexual desires? No one answer is acceptable to all researchers in the field. Important factors, however, seem to fall into four categories. As with so many other odd sexual proclivities, males appear especially susceptible:

1. Homosexual experience:
any homosexual experience in childhood, especially if it is a first sexual experience or with an adult
any homosexual contact with an adult, particularly with a relative or authority figure (in a random survey, 5% of adult homosexuals vs 0.8% of heterosexuals reported childhood sexual involvements with elementary or secondary school teachers.

2. Family abnormality, including the following:
a dominant, possessive, or rejecting mother
an absent, distant, or rejecting father
a parent with homosexual proclivities, particularly one who molests a child of the same sex
a sibling with homosexual tendencies, particularly one who molests a brother or sister
the lack of a religious home environment
divorce, which often leads to sexual problems for both the children and the adults
parents who model unconventional sex roles
condoning homosexuality as a legitimate lifestyle– welcoming homosexuals (e.g., co-workers, friends) into the family circle

3. Unusual sexual experience, particularly in early childhood:
precocious or excessive masturbation
exposure to pornography in childhood
depersonalized sex (e.g., group sex, sex with animals)
or girls, sexual interaction with adult males

4. Cultural influences:
a visible and socially approved homosexual sub-culture that invites curiosity and encourages exploration
pro-homosexual sex education
openly homosexual authority figures, such as teachers (4% of Kinsey's and 4% of FRI's gays reported that their first homosexual experience was with a teacher)
societal and legal toleration of homosexual acts
depictions of homosexuality as normal and/or desirable behavior


Can homosexuality be changed?

Certainly. As noted above, many people have turned away from homosexuality - almost as many people call themselves "gay."

Clearly the easier problem to eliminate is homosexual behavior. Just as many heterosexuals control their desires to engage in premarital or extramarital sex, so some with homosexual desires discipline themselves to abstain from homosexual contact.

One thing seems to stand out: Associations are all-important. Anyone who wants to abstain from homosexual behavior should avoid the company of practicing homosexuals. There are organizations including "ex-gay ministries, " (18) designed to help those who wish to reform their conduct. Psychotherapy claims about a 30% cure rate, and religious commitment seems to be the most helpful factor in avoiding homosexual habits.

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Post time 2006-2-27 17:33:16 |Display all floors
Do you think a cock up your arse is natural?
Compuer thays noh~~~

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Post time 2006-2-28 04:18:55 |Display all floors

reply to #40

Well, if that's your qualifier, what about straight couples who like anal sex? Straight guys who like girls to use strap-ons with them? Vibrators? Let's face it, people do a lot of things in the bedroom that don't lead directly to reproduction. If all people worried about was being "natural" and getting the guy to deposit his sperm inside the girl, sex would be no fun at all--no foreplay, no oral sex, no setting the mood, no toys, no nothing. So who are you to condemn guys who like to have sex with other guys? Aren't there enough people on this planet anyway?

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Post time 2006-2-28 09:01:55 |Display all floors
I think girls are born to be bisexual...

but for guys..i dont think i can accept gays...i find them bit dirty..cos it is easier for them to get hiv..and spread them through anal sex...

i agree with sockmonkey that there are things that people enjoy in bedroom which may not lead to reproduction..it is simpley just for fun...haha...it is all natural...
I don't know if I like you or love you, want you or need you, all I know is I love the feeling I get when I'm near you.

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