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I've seen some pretty sexual things in chatrooms too, by heterosexual people. I once went into a chatroom that was called "Bilingual: French & English" when I was learning French. There was a little bit of sex talk there, but as soon as I left and checked my email, there were about 12 emails all asking for sex or advertising porn sites!!! And I wasn't even in a sex room! I was afraid to go into chat rooms after that.
On homosexuality running in the family - a friend of mine is gay, and so is his sister. Out of 4 kids, 2 of them are gay, and he did NOT grow up in an open household at all! His parents were very strict, and he hid his homosexuality until he moved out of the house, and when he finally told them, his parents disowned him (said "you're not my kid anymore").
Strict vs. open households don't produce/not produce gay kids, but I'm sure they affect when & how the kid comes out with it.
Gay people often come from closed-minded families, those are usually the kids afraid of coming out and who go through the most grief. From knowing gay people, I absolutely believe it is the way they are born. They do not choose it. I do believe that people who are somewhere in the middle can choose which they like for the moment, I mean bisexual people, but I believe they also are born that way, with the tendency to like both sexes (or simply not have a strong preference, therefore like either)
Sure, SOME of it can be conditioned, you can be taught that something is dirty or evil, and grow up agreeing it is dirty or evil, but..... I think sexual preference is too strong of a thing to be "talked into it" (or out of it). There are some Christian groups that say they can change a gay person - make them straight. Ha! They don't work, even when the gay person wants to change. Or it works temporarily, while the gay person has the willpower to force himself to like a woman and maybe even marry her (or vice versa of course), but later the person can't take it anymore and has to be free - free to love the people he loves, not force it or fake it.