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Dr. Freaky says...
Don't ask her out through a message, ask either in person or on the phone. Maybe you can have a conversation first, get to know some things she likes and doesn't like. Then you can get an idea about where to go on your next date. |
I agree that saying "I love you" so soon is ... well, it's quite soon, but I don't know what words you used in Chinese, maybe it's not equal to "I love you" in English. In English "I love you" is a very serious thing to say, and gives the impression you want to be with her a very long time - as if you would consider her for marriage.
I don't think it's a good idea to tell her you didn't mean it. That might sound mean, or hurt her feelings. Maybe you can approach it like this - you can apologize for saying it so soon, as if you are concerned for her feelings. You're sorry and you hope you didn't make her uncomfortable by saying you love her so soon. You can tell her that when you thought about it later, you realized you should know each other better first, so that you can make sure you truly mean it, you're not just saying it like a child... she deserves to hear a good, firm, certain "I love you", and you want to get to know her better by doing things like... (and name some fun things she might like to do, and maybe that can set up the next date.)
Of course, only say these things if they are true for you.