Author: cagita

What a chinese girl expect from her boyfriend? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2006-2-3 19:39:07 |Display all floors

chinese girlfriends........

It seems kind of funny,but I kind of agree.

I have some Chinese friends,and I hear the girls talk.Mostly ,it seems taht they expect for the man to buy a house.They expect just to move in.

They expect a ring,after a few months.
They expect lots of gifts and even fot the guy to buy them clothes.
They expect for the guy to pay all the bills,for example when they go out for  a night on town.

Personal opinion.Too much pressure on any guy.Will this mindset ever change?

I would like to from some Chinese ladies out there.Please tell me where all of this comes from?

Thx
Cheers!

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Post time 2006-2-4 00:45:50 |Display all floors
I think you don't have to think what can you give for her because of the devotion. Maybe you should do the same. But I think, if you really love each other, everything will be natural...

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Post time 2006-2-4 01:06:47 |Display all floors

Love and gifts will do just fine!

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Post time 2006-2-4 01:54:48 |Display all floors
Yup, gifts... x_O

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Post time 2006-2-4 20:05:09 |Display all floors

I'm not a Chinese lady myself (I'm from France)...

... but here's what I want.

I just want the man to be passionate.  That's it.  Simple as that.
I don't even want to be married (I've been cheated too many times already!).  So now, I just want him to give me pleasure, and that's it.
Je suis une femme passionnée.

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Post time 2006-2-4 20:51:05 |Display all floors

So ...

What do any of us expect from our relationships? "Expect" sounds a bit too pre-planned - so maybe we should leave room for surprises.

Kudos to changchunlao (see, I can be nice!) for being honest.

How about asking your partner: communicate and understand what each person is looking for and hoping for.
Take me down to the paradise city, where the grass is green and the girls are pretty

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Post time 2006-2-4 22:07:54 |Display all floors
try your best to think about what she thinks...
give what she really need, keep your heart chaste to her, and never  hurt her whenever & wherever ....
i think if you really love her ,you will know how&what to do naturally...unless you are an idiot...
following my dream...

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