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I stayed with them and saw the most happiest time they had......................
They were the happiest couple on earth and my brother was very successful and her family was very supportive of them.|
Eventually my brother and my sister-in-law returned back to N.America and started a new life.
I also embarked my own journey to America in early 1970 and visited them during the Christmas.
It was hell ! It was exactly what Xiphoid experienced !!!!!!!!!!!!
My sister-in-law was in relapse, she was up all night, praying to GOD saying her daughter is "Jesus Christ", pre-occupied with religious tone and until today 40 years later, the schizophrenia never burn out instead remained the most deadly disease.
She was delusional, hallucinating and agitated !
Instead of poor poverty of thought and content of speech, she exhibited tangential thought, apathy, anhedonia, and singing the Bible.
My brother became an alcoholics, left the house and worked 16 hours a day and met "another woman" but the Chinese culture bounded he and my sister-in-law together for life. (Despite we have lived in America for four generations, our Chinese roots remain strong !!!)
My brother would hide the beer, liquor in the back of the car, and ready to bring to the office to drink (He had his own accounting firm).
He had frequent fights with my sister-in-law when she relapsed and refused to go to the hospital and the police were called in due to fights.
How embarrassing was when the police were called in hundreds of times to their house for disturbance---it was hell !! HELL !!!!!!
She was recently hospitalized again for 6 weeks and returned home.
There was NO marriage !!!!!!!
They did have another son ten years later after a very careful medical check-up !
The son is finishing university this year but an X-generation young man , lost in America !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Was this the University of Michigan Medical Center fault ? No !!
Was this the doctor's fault ? No !!
Was this anyone's fault ? No !!
Is life unfair ? Yes
The saga continued ...............................