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Be very careful!
Three months is not long enough to really love someone, who you have not met, yet. Also, it is very easy for a guy to charm a girl with smooth lies, on icq! Be sure that he isn't only telling you what he knows you want to hear.|
I will be marrying a Chinese girl in January, and we have had known each other for three years, before we met. Like you, we were in love after three months.
During those three years, we got to know each other very well, in our hearts and minds, without the distraction of physical attraction. Also, that time was a test of our love and devotion.
She came to America to see if she would like living here, and she really loves it very much. But, I cannot know if you would like it. Everyone is different.
It is easier for my fiancee to move here, because her beloved mother died of cancer, several years, ago, and her father and brother are mean to her.
To be honest, three years was actually too long to wait, but well worth it I hope you don't have to wait that long, but don't rush things. Mere infatuation can be easlily mistaken for love, and the results can be disasterous--but you are the only one who can know if you really feel love.
Be sure to ask your guy a lot of questions about his background and life. Be sure that he does not have a wife at home!
If your guy avoids questions, it is not because you are wrong to do so. It would be because he is hiding something.
Above all, if you meet, be sure that you are not alone with him, until you really feel safe. You should have friends with you and meet in a public place.
I really hope that you have found the man of your dreams and that things work out well for both of you!