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The boy crisis in China   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2018-9-12 09:09:45 |Display all floors
Boy is boy, girl is girl.
Do not make your boy to be a girly boy.

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Post time 2018-9-12 10:26:45 |Display all floors
1626548377 Post time: 2018-9-11 07:08
"many simply do not know what "responsibility" means"
So true, my wife's brother son is 28 years old ...

re: "is 28 years old and can't buy a pants or draw money at a ATM without mamma's help."

  He's a dummy and mother should be reeducated

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Post time 2018-9-12 11:12:06 |Display all floors
parcher Post time: 2018-9-11 09:50
its no surprise then that many chinese men are still living with their parents unable to deal with t ...

"Treating them as litttle emperors and allowing them to have their own way contributes to so many divorces as well"

Not only divorces, that is a family problem, what is worse is that these little emperors grow up into big emperors and give society endless problems, with fights, etc over petty matters, even killing, because they can't tell right from wrong, being always cocooned by their over-indulgent parents and grandparents!  Yes, poor family upbringing is no longer a family matter, it has become a social problem!

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Post time 2018-9-12 11:15:15 |Display all floors
Yes, boys with cosmetics have been featured on TV, they really look odd, effeminate, not manly at all.  

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Post time 2018-9-12 11:54:28 |Display all floors
This is only a temporary problem as with more than one child policy there will be less attention devoted to each kid. It was a great experiment and the world learned a lot from it, however now we know what NOT to do because it causes social demographic problems later on.

When this generation of Grannies have died and gone to heaven, then who will know how to look after the kids? People will pay kindergartens to do this for them and that will cause more different social problems.

I have a feeling that we need to move to the next level of society, to go back to the drawing board and figure out what we want for the Chinese citizens in this society and how we are going to plan to get it.

Unfortunately, that needs a wide view of the whole problem which I am not sure anyone has at the moment. It needs big kahunas and a bold approach to the future in order to bring China forward into leading the world responsibly.
testing the waters

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Post time 2018-9-12 12:52:37 |Display all floors
petera Post time: 2018-9-11 18:38
True

This is very true. However the bankster lead world government has been thrusting gender role ...

As usually, extremism just lead you to stupid non sense affirmation...who can vlame you wi the zero level of culture you have been taught. Those who wantvto open books can learn how other peoples think and organize culture and society. There are society where house is is woman property, there are culture where it's women who hunting, thete are culture where mens take care of childrens. even more than women...but we all know your agenda: cultural diversity and respect if differences are your usual scapegoat ennemies, huhh?

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