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As 'kidphobia' becomes prevalent, some say it's a byproduct of one-child [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2017-5-30 17:01:02 |Display all floors
The mother went on tv to slam the girl for kicking her child, yet she never apologized for assaulting the restaurant worker for doing his job, which was to calm her down, and take the incident outside the restaurant..
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Post time 2017-5-31 09:17:30 |Display all floors
'nice' reason for this .. It's about parents's education and habit .. one-child is easy to handle ..

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Post time 2017-6-2 10:49:34 |Display all floors
It saddens me to think about what happened.  
I remember several Proverbs:
"Train up a child on the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it," and
"Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish them with the rod, he will not die."

I guess it also goes on how parents should discipline their children.  Not just give what the kids want or let them hit them or etc.  Many times have I seen several parents who would let their young ones embarrass them, misbehave in public, and do nothing.   Once the kids know that it is wrong, chances are they will not do it.  

An example of this was when a friend of mine has a kid who had the habit of slapping or yelling unnecessarily or throwing food when it was eating time, the father or the mother had to whack the butt of a 2-year old child.  Not strong, of course.  It is just to show that what he was doing is not right.  The parents are some of the most loving couples I have ever encountered.
People may say that he was too young to be punished, but come to think of it, if it will not start young, when will discipline begin?  
After effects?  He no longer slap, yell (unless he has a playmate and gets excited), or throw food.  He's now continuing to learn how to behave himself.
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