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1 Before a Chinese girl gets into a relationship with a western man, she should remember Rupert Murdoch. And how he abandoned his Chinese wife and daughters. Then there are other cases when Chinese women have been killed by their western husbands. But not vice versa.|
2 In many cases, the motivation for a Chinese girl to marry a western man is to resettle in the west but the motivation for a western man to marry the Chinese girl is to get someone more subservient than western women. The two motivations are different and a vacuum will occur between them which will take more than the initial mutual feelings of attraction to fill.
3 In this particular tragic case for Bi and despicable case for Matthews, she was more educated, had more means and probably took more initiative in most matters whereas he is less educated, makes less, feels more inadequate and therefore more sensitive to slights that challenged his sense of manhood which means he could lash out. And he did with his karate skills.
4 Chinese women for that matter other Asian women who want to enter relationships with western men should take all the above factors into consideration before they even start. What is the point of ignoring those points in the hope the western heart can be subdued and if it isn't, death results?
5 They should also think how their mixed blood children if any will have to orientate in mostly monoracial societies even in the west especially when racialism and racism tend to rear their ugly heads from time to time, eg Austria, Italy, France and Australia.
6 Before parents send their daughters overseas, ask them to read this post carefully and express their opinions before packing their bags. Ask them another question and wait for the answer; the question is: how many Chinese have died at the hands of others or from accidents overseas after coming into means to start different lives or experience new situations in the last twenty years? If they don't know or won't answer, tell them to be more careful and observant and be aware what is happening to themselves with their new freedom. After all, if they want to be independent, they must be able to know dangers in advance and how they make decisions on their own which can endanger their lives.
7 Since there are so many Chinese men of means and intelligence studying and working overseas who are unattached, why not them first before others to avoid the very complications which have repeated too often to utter regret what more loss of life.
8 In any relationship know the other side as completely as knowing oneself. Don't jump in without clear thinking and wisdom.