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Post time 2016-6-10 20:43:19 |Display all floors
exportedkiwi Post time: 2016-6-10 18:48
If it were me, I'd rather not know she was doing it at all, at least, not officially as in her tel ...

I know what you mean but I'd prefer her to be upfront about it rather than find out later, possibly through a third party.

The question then is how you deal with it.  A lot of men would end the relationship and i totally get that, it's got to be better to be straight with each other.  Mistrust is the worst thing in a relationship.
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Post time 2016-6-11 15:52:35 |Display all floors
St_George Post time: 2016-6-10 20:43
I know what you mean but I'd prefer her to be upfront about it rather than find out later, possibl ...

I depends on the variables of the foundation of that particular marriage.
Must of us would like to think that marriage is souly based on love e.g.
But the reality is that a lot of marriages, especially in Asia are based on convenience and stability.
Quick example would be that a women would rather marry a man who was in a better position to provide rather than one she was in love with. Meaning that the foundation of this marriage was not built on genuine love, rather an artificial love that happened to grow from a commodity. If the women in that relationship then felt that one day she no long wanted sex even after much effort from both parties to rekindle that part of their life then there would be no other option but to divorce or have an agreement on letting your partner have sex with others. It's sounds wrong, but after marriage, it's extremely unfair to no long want to have a physical relationship with your partner and expect them never to have sex for the rest of their life.

In marriage everything is shared together, intimacy, feelings, financial e.g. If one day one of the partners decided not to share their finances then it's the same situation, it's the deal breaker that should end the marriage unless the couple are willing to compromise on a solution.

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Post time 2016-6-11 19:21:20 |Display all floors
St_George Post time: 2016-6-9 20:23
Yes. So long as I fancied the bloke/blokes myself...

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1584austin Post time: 2016-6-9 22:11
Is that Kbay or St George posted that

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Post time 2016-6-11 19:33:23 |Display all floors
I prefer quality over quantity....
if you want something in life get off your backside, and do it yourself!! don't rely on others to do it for you

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Post time 2016-6-13 07:29:54 |Display all floors
parcher Post time: 2016-6-11 19:33
I prefer quality over quantity....

These days it's a case of never mind the quality, feel the width im afraid  
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Post time 2016-6-13 21:19:46 |Display all floors
St_George Post time: 2016-6-10 16:43
I know what you mean but I'd prefer her to be upfront about it rather than find out later, possibl ...

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