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Would you marry a girl who is older than you?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2016-5-23 08:53:50 |Display all floors
sunnylin01 Post time: 2016-5-20 13:49
Tan Wanping, 23, was once a chef, while his wife Li Liangyou, 46, is an office worker in a local hos ...

This is not about ages,and it is about love.

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Post time 2016-5-23 15:43:44 |Display all floors
Best wishes to Li and Tan.

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Post time 2016-5-24 08:02:37 |Display all floors
This post was edited by noviskic520 at 2016-5-24 18:47

I can feel this couple’s happiness through these series pictures.
Also I highly appreciate the gay’s courage to make the decision.
Because he have to suffer huge pressure coming form the vast public and  Social Media .
But I have the similar  questions  with many forumites :
1. will he change the attitude after a decade  or more?
      As a decade pass, his wife will be about 60 years old while he will be just 35.In this stage the men will be more mature ,his career may raise to a new level,He need to focus to the daily work most of the time. Contrarily, his wife will be retired and will consider more about healthy and relax,such as travel.the couple sleep at the same bed but think  about the completely different things.gradually,they will have little and little common topics.     what'more?the man will still have sexual needs,but his wife will refuse his requirement.

2.will they plan to have a child?
   as an up and coming guy he is definitely eager for a child.but it is extremely  difficult and rough for a woman near 50 years old to consider a new brithing.

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Post time 2016-5-24 08:24:19 |Display all floors
becca216 Post time: 2016-5-22 18:24
The probability is very very strong. I can accept their love. However, in my deep heart, this marr ...

Agreed. The age difference is too large in the wrong direction.

I do, however, wish them all the very best.

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Post time 2016-5-24 15:03:47 |Display all floors
If it works fine. If not then suffer the consequences, however, it's their decision so who are we to judge. As the book of words says "Let him who hath no sin cast the first stone".
Per Ardua Ad Astra

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Post time 2016-5-24 16:22:54 |Display all floors
I probably would if I was ugly....
Your own mind is a sacred enclosure into which nothing harmful can enter except by your permission. Arnold Bennett

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Post time 2016-5-24 17:04:34 |Display all floors
Its body's business but theirs.

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