Who is winner?
My friend of child always fight with others partner, buthe was beat by them, he hated himself ,so he decided to study “Wu shu”, so hewent to temple of Shao Lin and didn’t say to his parents. After threeyears he came back his home. I glad tosee him and asked :” who do you want to beat first?” he smiled and told me:” I don’t want to beatanyone.” I surprised and looked him. He said to me:”if the person was overmasteredby your forces, you aren’t winner, the real winner is your heart that is very calm, how to understand the “failure”which will be decide who is winner.”
I understood it,