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What do you think of trial marriage?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2015-11-25 15:46:54 |Display all floors
That's called dating where I come from. Not a new idea at all. Silly people
I am me and that is something you will never be, no matter how hard you try!!

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usaprc56 Post time: 2015-11-25 10:30
normal thinking in the land of prostitution,,,,  most here have no clue what a commitment is,,,  eve ...

Where are the statistics to back up your story?

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usaprc56 Post time: 2015-11-25 10:30
normal thinking in the land of prostitution,,,,  most here have no clue what a commitment is,,,  eve ...

Care to provide some citations to back up your statements. If you can that is.
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Post time 2015-11-26 08:55:23 |Display all floors
A successful marriage requires patience, work and commitment, trust and an element of independent freedom. Responsible people living together for a time can avoid the misery of a bad marriage. No-one "knows" what another is really like until at least a year has passed together. Even then a person must expect a partner to mature and change over time.
In China young people who are only just out of childhood and education are almost forced by tradition, family and gossip to marry and have a child. I know some friends here who married after just 2 months as boy/girlfriend. Their marriage is for a long time (unless they divorce).. and a child will exaggerate problems. These people have had no life, no independence and no pleasure in just sharing things together. I suppose it is lucky that it is easier to divorce in China than in the west, but the damage is done.
Encourage young people to have a life and to really get to know a partner before marriage, and break with the old ways without fear.
English teacher and education adviser. China needs a teaching profession with less fear and more trust and honesty.

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Post time 2015-11-26 09:33:28 |Display all floors
. it takes lots of work, commitment and desire to make a long term marriage work. there is no incentive to work at a trial marriage. the first sign of trouble and you split. no strings attached. good for the boy. you can date for two years and accomplish the same thing. this is just a way to try to legitimize sexual relations before marriage.

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