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Don't be angry, be logical
I quite agree that you SHOULD not tolerate the fact that a foreigner insults CHINA as having no manners. |
China is a country of 1.3 billion people. You cannot expect all of them to have the same manners as Confucious.
Some Chinese people may behave badly towards foreigners because of a numbe of reasons, but the majority of Chinese people are kind and only 'avoid' foreigners, and that, for a good reason too. China's history has not had a good deal of happy memoirs from the foreign devils. (lol) and in the light of those memoirs, anyone would be wary.
But, coming to your Greek and Mongolian friends, let us just say they were the low examples of the foreign expat/traveller in China. Not All Greeks are so bad, nor allo Mongolians. By vindicating yourself in a manner that illustrates all foreigners as wild, manner-less barbarians, you only prove to us, that you are no different from them?!
It may arise some sympathy from your fellow Chinese on this list, and may lead to some angry anti-foreign posts - which quite satisfies some Chinese- but in the end, you will end up being an idiot for what you wrote.
First, by writing something like this, you showed that you have no idea how to verbally defend your country. If I were you, I would prove them wrong. Do your homework and always be ready next time, if you could not this time. Don't mourn over spilled milk, find another cow.
Second, your words instill the idea that all foreigners are mannerless freaks who like to consider the Chinese as lowlifes. Well, my friend, my girlfriend is Chinese and though I am older and more educated than her, she has better manners than I do. There are other people I know, for example the Dean of my University is a man whose photos are on the walls of the city. He is a high ranking official as well. But when he meets other people, his humble greeting and way he treats his subordinates almost makes you feel this is a dream. In other words, Chinese do have good manners, as do people from other countries.
Last, I would like to mention anger as a factor in making you lose a verbal game you started. By becoming disappointed and angry, you get nothing. You will lose your health. Cool down and get into a rigourous discussion with your foreign friends. maybe they were not actually thinking in the way you thought they did. Maybe they were joking with you, and you took it serious.
It is time to enjoy life and friends from all countries get together and live in harmony. There is no point wasting your, or OUR time reading something angry. If you were in America, they could have sent you to a shrink!