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what is certainly the finest balm for the pangs of disappointed love. [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2015-8-20 01:02:45 |Display all floors
today is valentine's day i knew i should not have posted it here! but everyone have been suffered love hurts when breaking up with your lover!how do you guys walk out from the past?or if you don't mind, you could share your story with us!
my skype is nana.zuo90

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Post time 2015-8-20 18:27:04 |Display all floors
so there are 3 valentines days in China:
14th of February,
Double 7
11/11

I feel sorry for Chinese people who are so commercialised especially with meaningless 'holidays'

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Post time 2017-2-22 22:41:05 |Display all floors
Happened to be counseling students and adults, some of them have serious problems when breakup struck them.
Some do get over quickly, others do not.
Pain is common.
Drastic cases did occurred.
When time comes, they realized that it should be over and out.
Not courage! MATURITY opens the door!

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Post time 2017-2-22 22:50:12 |Display all floors
BlondeAmber Post time: 2015-8-20 18:27
so there are 3 valentines days in China:
14th of February,
Double 7

In China, many things are commercialized.
Few know about those festivals introduced by the west. However, majority is afraid that they will be left out, if they do not ape the west.
Staunch political office holders attend Mass and help spread it.
STRANGE!

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Post time 2017-2-22 22:51:07 |Display all floors
BlondeAmber Post time: 2015-8-20 18:27
so there are 3 valentines days in China:
14th of February,
Double 7

Probably, in China; there is a sense of lost soul and soul searching.
Some explanation is out there waiting!

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Post time 2017-2-22 22:54:17 |Display all floors
BlondeAmber Post time: 2015-8-20 18:27
so there are 3 valentines days in China:
14th of February,
Double 7

When former US President was asked if he attended Mass. He said that he wanted to but was advised strongly against it. Reason is for him to attend Mass, secret service would be put to secure the church. It will cost a lot. Just too much as it would be better for him to say his prayers.
Today, majority of Chinese pride themselves in believing in some religions. Fine but there are those who worship TERRRORISM.
This is the REAL PROBLEM!
Same in other countries!

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Post time 2017-2-22 23:38:03 |Display all floors
To feel hurt and pain after a breakup is natural for most people and especially for those who had loved honestly and fully.

But better to part if staying on together accumulates more heartache for either or both.

One needs to have hope of good continuation in the journey of love and such a special type of hope cannot be nourished by memory of pain only.

So let go and move on; think not harshly of the other but wish the person well, take the separation as a blessing of a new chapter yet to be opened.

Maybe the next will be even more regretted but life is full of surprises, not necessarily always pleasant.

Looking at your eyes alone tell the whole world you have a good heart. True love blossoms from pure hearts.

Thank you for reading this comment and nodding your head in agreement.  We may never meet but it is enough to be able to sympathize and understand from afar.

After all, once one has truly loved, compassion comes easy.

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