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mixamixa Post time: 2015-1-10 02:14
Never date or get involved with anyone from your workplace. Office buildings and near by restaurants ...

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Post time 2015-1-10 11:57:03 |Display all floors

Firstly 28 is not over the hill, many Chinese women I know are in their 30s single and like you have higher qualifications.  Most end up married by the time they are 35 or so, so you have plenty of time.   

There are loads of highly qualified and mostly nice Chinese men in their early 30s who have doctorates but no girlfriend, often because they are somewhat socially awkward and are a bit shy or don't know how to talk with women.  

The suggestions of a couple of posters here make sense, restaurants, sports clubs, also friends, matchmakers and so on can really help.  

Do you watch 非诚勿扰?  You could always apply for the show, it's viewed by 50 million plus people in China as well as an international audience in many countries.  It may be worth considering as well.  I know one girl who was your age when she was on the show (First Sydney Special), she won a date but the guy was no good (liar).  However she received thousands of emails and one of those guys was so good she ended up marrying him.  They have a beautiful baby boy now who's coming up for a year old.

There's also online social sites (eg Weibo) dating sites etc.

Be positive and it will work out right in the end.   I knew my current girlfriend for many years and never thought she was interested in me except as a friend, how wrong I was!
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raton Post time: 2015-1-10 11:02
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confidentaliaso Post time: 2015-1-8 09:56
no , i can't accept a bf who earns less than me. he must be as excellent as me or more excellent

So you think money is more important than personality then?

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billymillennium Post time: 2015-1-10 14:09
Hey enjoy your freedom! While others are cleaning diapers and screaming babies and troublesome kids, ...

You went full retard there

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Post time 2015-1-10 19:42:43 |Display all floors
Please be patient and i believe you will meet your Mr Right one day. Believe yourself!
Good luck to you!

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