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Post time 2014-11-2 14:13:49 |Display all floors


I like to make friends in reality but not much in social nets.
I have few friends in this forum who I accepted their request after I have noticed they are real people for their comments in different threads.

Today I got a friendship request from a member who just registered yesterday. Why she asked me for friendship ? Of course I didn´t accept her. She has nice picture, young girl but I feel she is a ghost.
Once in a while i get this kind of invitations from unknown members who I have never interacted in any single thread in this forum and I always refuse them.

How do you handle this kind of invitations?

Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2014-11-2 15:14:11 |Display all floors
This is not social media. Use Facebook, Twitter, Instagram to share things with your friends.

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Post time 2014-11-2 16:18:30 |Display all floors
mixamixa Post time: 2014-11-2 15:14
This is not social media. Use Facebook, Twitter, Instagram to share things with your friends.

Correct

But my point is about the option below your avatar ¨Add friends¨ and some strangers appears asking for friendship.

By my experience after debating in this forum with some members for a certain time it ended in a good friendship based in similar interests, similar ideas, similar characters, etc.

What do you do if you get this kind of requests?
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2014-11-2 16:52:33 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2014-11-2 16:18
Correct

But my point is about the option below your avatar ¨Add friends¨ and some strangers app ...

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Post time 2014-11-3 17:08:09 |Display all floors
The only reason why I would decline a friend request in this forum is if I was scared of their avatar.

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Post time 2014-11-3 17:18:37 |Display all floors
surfer567 Post time: 2014-11-3 17:08
The only reason why I would decline a friend request in this forum is if I was scared of their avata ...

I also seem to attract the pretty ladies on here....
must be my avator....
getting tiring trying to keep up with all their seedy offers
if you want something in life get off your backside, and do it yourself!! don't rely on others to do it for you

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Post time 2014-11-13 17:27:42 |Display all floors

" I also seem to attract the pretty ladies on here....
must be my avator.... "(Parcher).
They must have a fixation on Winston Churchill!
I would like like to make some friends in China, but real friends. Or, more specifically, acquaintances.
Difficult though for someone in my area. I took the bus to town today and wandered around for 2 hours. Despite my lack of Chinese I managed to buy some knitting wool and get a new watch strap. But never do I get to talk to anyone in English.


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