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I am leaving. It's not my intention to satisfy certain unreasonable members but certainly they will be so happy when I leave.|
As for why I'm leaving,because,I suddenly found out that I've spent over 240hrs on this forum since last summer. 240hrs！I was shocked.Too much....I can't accept wasting so much of my time here,gaining nothing.
Yet another certain member had spent over 8000hrs on this forum,I could never compare with him. He certainly showed his determination to stay in the forum till he's forbidden or too old to. While I,have too many things to achieve in my life. I've spent a year in the forum,I achieved nothing here,of course I felt the joy,but I feel the hatred and unfriendliness much more. The forum may benefit some of the members,but I'm not one of them.
I came here to learn,and to exchange ideas. There are postive sides here,but the negative sides are just too much. I thought I would post something useful,meaningful of my experience and opinions,but then I could just imagine,how I will be mocked as "ignorant" "foolish" "clumsy",etc. If my experiences or opinions are mocked,of course I will not post. My experiences are valuable,at least for myself. But seeing the circumstances here,no I can't post.
It's just not possible to exchange ideas or experiences in an unfriendly envrironment. I post to enjoy,not to get hurt. Why did some posters stop posting threads? And why did some users choose to leave? If we common users here are compared as a group of saddin fish,the active posters can be compared as the catfish,as they are making the forums more active. But unfortunately, some posters are very very active,but they are not catfish but sharks. They are the ones who scared many members away. Believe it or not,the sharks enjoy doing this. That's why they are here for over 80,000hrs and never change the cruel posting style.
Anyway,I am going to leave. I don't like goodbyes so I will not be here any more.
I am an ambitious young woman,and I have so many to achieve in my life. That's what I should focus on.
I would want to stay,but the forum could never stop the hatred or the bitter words from several posters. I don't need to suffer from those. For the members I liked and cared, best of wishes to you all. I hope you are all happy on the forum.
As for the ones I don't like,you are for me,never existed.
Byebye.(only for those I care about)