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Post time 2014-7-30 06:08:09 |Display all floors
i have some friends from Hong Kong that when they travel abroad, they are tired to carry the burden to be recognized as Chinese mainlanders.

Chinese government is doing nothing to reinforce the social manners in its people. I don´t know what they are waiting for with the tons of money under its pockets. That´s why many people says China is a country of contradictions.
I dont blame the ignorant people, i blane the authorities having the solution in their hands, they do nothing.
So the shame in Chinese citizens will continue for long long time. Sorry for them.

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Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

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Post time 2014-7-30 06:13:05 |Display all floors
raton Post time: 2014-7-30 02:42
it has nothing to do with culture, is about common sense that a child cant poop on an airplane sea ...
The flight attendant didn´t perform her duties and the passengers poop themselves ignoring those peasants   


Do you mean the flight attendant should be like a guard watching all passengers actions at all the times?  Come on amigo.

The ignorance of some Chinese has not justifications,as you said its about common senses, these people doesn´t have it, nor respect for others too, that´s lack of education.

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Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

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Post time 2014-7-30 10:31:14 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2014-7-30 06:13
Do you mean the flight attendant should be like a guard watching all passengers actions at all t ...

The Chinese government fail it's national in many ways. There are not responsible for enforcing manners, and respect for others and their property. It seem very obvious taht the parents and grandparents had never learn't the simple human behaviour such as respect to others and dignity. However manners, social behaviour, self respect, preserving ones dignity is something that is breed into you in your young life. It is obvious that manners and decend social behaviour is something this family do not understand. For the past 2 years The governement have been telling it's nationals to been better behaved and show more respect to other when travelling abroad. This family are teaching this child what! taht it's OK and natural to 'POOP in public or on other people property! what will this child teach their children later in life, Old habits are hard to change, some never die even after hundreds of years while most of us leave such bad habits and manners behind.

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Post time 2014-7-30 10:41:06 |Display all floors
Did the parents get banned from using that airline? or why did the police not arrest them when they landed?
such poor manners needs to be punished hard, to try and get thru to them that this will never be tolerated!!
if you want something in life get off your backside, and do it yourself!! don't rely on others to do it for you

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Post time 2014-7-30 13:30:29 |Display all floors
raton Post time: 2014-7-30 02:37
That is the problem. there are so ignorant and uneducated  that they can’t see the problem

Start to charge them clean up fees and they will learn fast. If this happened on an airline the people involved should be blacklisted and not allowed to fly again

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Post time 2014-7-30 14:03:56 |Display all floors
onceaknight Post time: 2014-7-30 10:31
The Chinese government fail it's national in many ways. There are not responsible for enforcing ma ...

The responsability in this kind of shortcomings of course is the government.

In Hong Kong for example, they don´t use images like Lei Feng, they are more practical and realistic to fill the society needs, if you watch local tv, in most commercial breaks  it shows graphic messages of civism like not to throw the garbage on the streets, enourage peple to use trash bins, not to let your children unattended, how to use the escape exits in case of emergencies, how to respect the traffic lights, etc.

The Chinese government must  work hard in this issues, it have to take this issue very seriously. Using the media like in Hong Kong, Implementing new methods of education since elementary school, etc. There are many ways to make improvements in a society and the education and civism is a must.

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Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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